Talk to her when she does and text funny cute things not related to her break up or feelings, it's not your place to sit and comfort her if in the future you want to be in a relationship with her. Basically don't be her comfort person, let her girlfriends take care of that. I would flirt and keep it light with her, let her get over it. In about 2 3 weeks she'll be more of herself, if you want to be considered as a future boyfriend to her I suggest chilling out, and let her deal on her own. I wouldn't sit there and baby this girl and Talk about her ex with her, you don't want to be considered as a "good friend to talk to" but as a new guy to flirt with and have fun and have some excitement in her life. You will be stuck in her friend zone, when she is over him she'll start dating a guy that gives her those feelings and you will be just that "good friend" that helped her get over her ex.
just drop some hints . DON'T be all over her give her some space too . ask her what happened with them find out what went down so you don't make that mistake . be a friend a close friend tell her you will always be there for her if she needs you. make sure she knows you are there and arnt just like some other guy . care for her more than you think anybody else would . slowly scoot your way out of the friend zone . Flirt a little but not too much and if she flirts back you knwo she likes you too unless she flirts with everyone . Finally just tell her how you feel . If I was her it would be nice to know how you felt .
If she is coming to you to comfort her she already put you in the 'just friends' category. If she is not looking for comfort from you but is looking for a distraction, treat her like there is nothing wrong. It can get annoying when all you want to do is forget about a past boyfriend and the new guy you're hanging out with acts like he is walking-on-eggshells because he doesn't want to push you.
I asked this question awhile ago, all the answers said it wasn't possible for a man to do this, she'd turn to girl friends and family.
I disagree but I have to admit it will be very 'touchy' for you. I'd not say much, just give her a token gift, flowers or the like, something pretty 'girly' because any 'guy' approach will probably just make her angry.
Don't be her friend at this time. Give her some space, but always still be in the picture.
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If you really love her + you don't want to hurt yourself = don't be extra nice to her ..because she'll think you love her and you'll think she loves you ending up in a rebound.
Just be there for her, help her when she needs and be a normal good friend. Just don't shower with with nice words. It doesn't help.
probably just try to tell her that she is an awesome person and she could get any guy she wants in 5 seconds or less... that'll give her the hint that you like her.
That's what one of my best guy friends told me, and I knew he liked me but I didn't go for him because I didn't like him that way but it DID cheer me up a lot
don't offer advice or anything. just be there and listen
Wait, do you want to comfort her or date her?
Let her put her head in your lap.
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