I'm not such a girl and my body is quite awful. I have very small breasts and my butt, well, it's not a great butt. it has cellulite, it's not very round, etc. Guys never check me out.
All of this makes me extremely anxious since I'm really insecure and my boyfriend likes to take me to the beach. But you know, it makes me feel awful that all these "beach babes" are strutting their stuff in front of him and I have nothing to offer. I told him it'd make me feel inadequate, but as he hates when I bring up my insecurities, his only answer was "So what if I look or if someone has a better body? I love YOU, take that in mind, and stop talking about it or you'll make me upset".
But I hate to think that he'll lustily check out the girls falling out of their tops and me I'll be just lying there almost perfectly flat! He already said that if they have better bodies and he notices I'll just have to deal with it. He has a good body, but anyway, I'm not very visual so it's not my hobby to check out men. Especilly since men around here all seem to be on the lazy side.
What can I do? I feel so unsexy during summer, I hate it, it's unfair!
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