My boyfriend's posters of Megan Fox and Kim Kardashian above his bed. Your opinion?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has these posters of Megan Fox and Kim Kardashian on the wall above his bed. I don't like it. In both posters, the girls are half naked in bikinis!

First of all, I am a very confident woman and I love my looks. I wouldn't change them for anyone's approval! I would never want to look exactly like Megan Fox, Kim Kardashian, or any other woman for that matter because I love the features I've been given and I'm grateful for my blessings :) I'm also a firm believer that beauty is diversity and there are many different types of beauty. Just because one type of beauty is commonly embraced and appreciated doesn't decrease the value of other sets of beauty. Yet, it still feels discouraging that my boyfriend has two half naked big ass posters of women who look nothing like me hanging in his room. How am I supposed to be riding him with damn Kim Kardashian right in front of my face half naked!? Looking dead at another woman who looks nothing like me! Like that's not gonna make me feel even a little self concious!

GUYS, How would you feel about effing your girlfriend from behind on her bed while she has a poster of Taylor Lautner's amazing, ripped body right in front of her, then next to that Trey Song'z gorgeous charamel complexion with those muscles popping out of everywhere, then on the other side of Taylor, she's got L.L. Cool J's incomparable fine ass licking his big, juicy lips! Three guys who may not even look the slightest like you!

It pisses me off and I want to say something about it, but I haven't because I don't want to come off as an insecure, controlling girlfriend. What should I do? What do you guys think? Guys, what would be your reaction if your girlfriend approaced you with this? Ladies, can you relate?

[skibunny]

Hahaha as I'm reading this post there is a Kim Kardashian advertisement...ironic..Almost every guy around this age has posters of half naked women. It's like a right of passage into manhood or something. I think it's humorous because they photo-shop the girls to look that perfect anyways, so they're not real anymore. I'm not against the posters though because I know that I'm never going to look that fake and I find them attractive as well.

[Asker]

lol thanks for giving your perspective, yet not attacking me :)

[fascination_streak]

To me, they're just posters. He has chosen to be with you and no one else. If it really bothers you then just mention it to him and maybe he'll take them down. The other option might be to phuck him with a blindfold on, that way you won't see the sluts on the posters and it makes sex fun too.

[dryad]

Bring pics of guys with huge weiners and post them on his wall, telling him you want something bigger to imagine while you're having sex with him.

I think that's a fair compromise, no?

[Asker]

LOL! good idea! :P

[vidovido]

i don't judge whether you're right or wrong ... it's not my business. the matter here is that those posters there on the wall and your boyfriend hanging them around house is annoying you this much ... I think you should talk about it with your boyfriend . if he respects you enough he should consider that . nobody says he can't have the crush in models and celebs ... but at least he can be more considerate if he knows your feelings about it

[Asker]

thank you for not just judging me then attacking me :) I appreciate it

[vidovido]

welcome ... hope I could help

[AltTech]

I can't stand Kardashian or Fox, their personalities totally ruin their looks for me. Just like Paris Hilton.

I wouldn't care if my girlfriend had a poster of Taylor Lautner (don't know who he is though), or a poster of LL Cool J. This is mainly because I'd consider those posters endless ammo to make fun of her with.

[Asker]

LOL!

[20Questions]

The way you've described those guys makes me think that I wouldn't be able to take it. Fortunately I think I can kinda compete with them...lol I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend asked me to take them down, it's not as if I'm dating a poster, and it would probably make the sex better too

[Asker]

it's really not about competing. It's about having respect and consideration for your partner's feelings.

[Confussions]

LOL You PREACH IT SISTER, this guy I'm dating at the moment.. I went to his house and there's a sh*t load of half naked girls all over his wall with huuge t*ts. I'm like -.- that makes me feel great about my small t*ts

[Asker]

Awww lol at the sarcasm though! yeah, it sucks. I'm not being overly sensitive! It's a natural HUMAN emotion. Everybody has and will get self concious at some point! I don't know why some people feel the need to act like they are perfect and they're immune from any bit of self conciosuness

[Anonymous]

Although I think he has crappy taste in celebrity women, I don't see a problem with this. You're twisting this to make it about you, and it has nothing to do with you. You're right when you say that you would come off as an insecure, controlling girlfriend. I don't have chick posters in my room, but if I did, I wouldn't get rid of them because my girlfriend complained about them. That's just setting myself up for a life of that. Today, chick posters. Tomorrow, everything else she hates, and end up with potpourri randomly around, flowery patterns everywhere, and a million pillows covering my bed.

[Asker]

No, it's not about making his room into what I like. It's a respect and consideration issue like "Gee maybe my girlfriend might not like it if I have pics of half naked women who don't look like her hanging on my wall?" boys are dumb.

[Opinion Owner]

The posters have nothing to do with you. He's dating you. That's not good enough? He can't have celebrity crushes? Go f*** him in every room other than the bedroom from now on then. He might enjoy that anyway.

[Asker]

The posters may not have anytihng to do with me, but it's still inconsiderate and selfish! no it's not good enough to just be dating me dumb ass he needs to show respect and consideration for my feelings

[Opinion Owner]

Well, if it is inconsiderate and selfish, you are two peas in a pod. He's 18. A lot of them have girls hanging up in their rooms. You're right, though. He should be more considerate for your overly sensitive feelings.

[Asker]

I'm not being overly sensitive. don't judge me. at least I'm open and honest about how I really feel

[Reggie1]

I wouldn't care, and neither should you. He probably doesn't even notice the posters anymore, even when you're not there. Kim Kardashian has the personality and intellect of a beansprout anyway.

[Asker]

lol @ beansprout

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a HUGE Kim kardashian poster. It doesn't bother me one bit. Guys don't expect you to look like that, and he's not going to compare you to photoshopped celebrities whose soul purpose is to look good.

[Asker]

I guess :/ thanks for sharing

[aloofalpha]

I wouldn't give a sh*t if she had poster boys...im f***ing her.

[Asker]

:D lmao!

[Risefix12]

The thing is babe if you had the money time and resource you would probably look better than Kim K Megan fox or sommer Rae sat up there on his wall. Just worry about your the one in the bed. You probably have a job that serves great purpose, you probably make your boyfriend seriously happy at times and also frustrate the life out of him.
No one is perfect your boyfriend just wants to believe some people are. ❤️

[Anonymous]

Ok

Couple Questions

How old is this guy?

Does he live at home?

How long have you been going out?

Do you REALLY see yourself going out with him much longer?

[Asker]

He is 18, but he's here from another country all by himself, he's taking junior classes as a sophomore in college, he's very independent, and has the maturity of a 23 year old at least. He'll be 19 in a few months!

He lives in his own town house like place with these awesome, sexy spiral stairs.

We have been together officially for five months now

Yes, we are very serious about each other. I have never experienced a connection like this in my entire life :)

[Anonymous]

When you say "above his bed" do you mean he has the posters on the ceiling or something? Or on the wall over the head of the bed.

[Anonymous]

Every real man dream to fuck Kim kardashian big ass.
So that's natural behaviour of real guy.

[Kimfans]

Agree

[Kimfans]

Kim kadam fucking hot

[Anonymous]

if you have an issue, say something