girls, what does maybe generally mean (answer that in polls)? my situation is this. I texted a girl to see if she wanted to go to a friend's birthday party and she said "maybe :)". what does that mean? (answer in answers)
it could mean that she doesn't want to go with you but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or it could just mean that she has to check her calender/ may have other plans. Maybe someone else asked her to go.
Maybe - I want to go but I have something planned at that day/time and I need to think about that
maybe - I don't think so
maybe - I like the idea, but I don't know what to wear
There can be many reasons behind that 'maybe' 0.0 but hard to tell exactly if she only answered with one word, questions like what you think about that friend/party? Would give more clues about what she thinks
If I text that to a guy with the :) then I would be letting him know that would want to go with him. The maybe makes one sound (not to eager).
depends on how she said it, did she smile? that would be a maybe yes.
What Guys Said 1
Most girls don't waste time on guys they are not attracted to unless they don't have a choice. MAYBE is usually equivalent to NO. Now, there are exceptions. However, if you are willing to hung around and be an "exception", then you are also what is commonly referred to as a 'loser'. Girls DO NOT like losers. Make an effort to be the "rule". If you don't know what I mean, you need to go back to the drawing board and up your game before you go asking girls out again. What are you doing texting her to ask her out anyway?, Some things you just have to ask in person. When you ask a girl out via text, you give her all the power. The power to not only say NO (very easily), but even if she says YES, she is able to text you at the last minute and cancel. You need to re-examine your entire approach, and then pounce on her without giving her the opportunity to say MAYBE, because MAYBE is usually just a polite way of saying NO.