How to tell if he'll actually break up with his girlfriend for you?
So, lets say a guy (who has a girlfriend of less than 5 months) cheats on his girlfriend with another girl who he has started to like. What are... Show More
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i hear me out cause I've been in this situation and other women on the side have to HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HER FOR YOU! Sry but its true. He may like you a lot and he may complain about bein unhappy with his girl and that he is going to leave soon but if you notice time and time is going by and he is still with her in the process of getting what he wants from you SEX. He knows the only way to keep you around is by givin you false hope that yall will one day be. Liking you doesn't mean anything to him. that is not his purpose with you. If he was gonna leave her for you and was serious he would have done it by now. no excuses. Sry but there is no way to tell if he is because 99% of the time nothing changes. I learned this after 6 months of dating this guy who continously said he was gonna leave his girlfriend and we liked each other a lot, complaining all the time about her but when I realized how stupid I was to believe that as time went by and he kept on screwing me, I woke up out of that stupidity and got smart quick. What the hell was I thinking? Bottomline girl: You'll know he will when he does. he words mean nothing if he's takin no action. Get out before you get hurt cause he is not with you to leave his gf. he's with you to have his cake and eat it too. that's it.
What Guys Said 2
Does it matter? Why would the other girl want a dishonest punk like that? You should always go into situations expecting nothing to change, because it usually won't. He's a dirtbag who probably doesn't even consider the "girlfriend" his girlfriend; he's just getting as much play as I can get.
The question I'd be asking if I were the other girl is, "if I disrespect myself so much as to let some two-timing dirtbag use me like this with no love, no commitment, no nothing, why would I expect a good guy to respect me and want to have a relationship or marry me?"
You have to ask yourself "what's going to happen when you and him get a little rocky, will he run to someone else? And you not know about it?"
What Girls Said 3
well that's great. the guy I messed around with was with his girl for 5 years and they have a 3 year old so kind of hard to break that up like you did. He was much easier for you to get cause he wasnt with his girl very long and they have no kids together. So yea that's y but if they had been married or in a longterm relationship plus a child, no chance at all but be careful girl cause if he'll cheat on his girl with you. what makes you think he won't do the same too if things start to get bad? think about it. You have every right to not trust him now cause you know he's capable of cheat ing on his girlfriend when things aren't good. He did it with you. So don't be surprised if he does it to you later
He'll lie to his girlfriend more to be with the other girl he's been flirting with. He'll hide his texts, delete his calls.