How to tell if he'll actually break up with his girlfriend for you?

[Jayne]

So, lets say a guy (who has a girlfriend of less than 5 months) cheats on his girlfriend with another girl who he has started to like.

What are signs that he will most likely break up with his girlfriend for the other girl?

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+1 y

He wasnt happy in his relationship because his girlfriend (of only 3 months) was a clingy psycho.They were in the process of breaking up when he 'cheated' on her with me. He DID break up with her and we're happily together now.

[Anonymous]

i hear me out cause I've been in this situation and other women on the side have to HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HER FOR YOU! Sry but its true. He may like you a lot and he may complain about bein unhappy with his girl and that he is going to leave soon but if you notice time and time is going by and he is still with her in the process of getting what he wants from you SEX. He knows the only way to keep you around is by givin you false hope that yall will one day be. Liking you doesn't mean anything to him. that is not his purpose with you. If he was gonna leave her for you and was serious he would have done it by now. no excuses. Sry but there is no way to tell if he is because 99% of the time nothing changes. I learned this after 6 months of dating this guy who continously said he was gonna leave his girlfriend and we liked each other a lot, complaining all the time about her but when I realized how stupid I was to believe that as time went by and he kept on screwing me, I woke up out of that stupidity and got smart quick. What the hell was I thinking? Bottomline girl: You'll know he will when he does. he words mean nothing if he's takin no action. Get out before you get hurt cause he is not with you to leave his gf. he's with you to have his cake and eat it too. that's it.

[Jayne]

He broke up with her tonight for me.

[Opinion Owner]

He did? do you know this for sure or did he just tell you? A lot of times women are told that he has left his girl and believe him but later find out, he lied and man that hurts. find out for sure. check his phone when he is not around. know for sure. did they live together? Girl if he really left her for you, you must have been somethin and consider yourself rare for this usually never happens.

[Heartbreak24]

How long did it take him to leave her?

[Deeplove55]

well that's great. the guy I messed around with was with his girl for 5 years and they have a 3 year old so kind of hard to break that up like you did. He was much easier for you to get cause he wasnt with his girl very long and they have no kids together. So yea that's y but if they had been married or in a longterm relationship plus a child, no chance at all but be careful girl cause if he'll cheat on his girl with you. what makes you think he won't do the same too if things start to get bad? think about it. You have every right to not trust him now cause you know he's capable of cheat ing on his girlfriend when things aren't good. He did it with you. So don't be surprised if he does it to you later

[kdawgg]

He'll lie to his girlfriend more to be with the other girl he's been flirting with. He'll hide his texts, delete his calls.

[Deeplove55]

So very true. the guy I was messing with about a month ago would cover me up on his phone from his girlfriend by putting a guys name in for my number which was chris so if she ever saw a number from or to chris from his phone, she would think it was his homeboy when it was me and he would delete our texts to each other everyday before he went to slp. Gosh, I'm glad I dropped him.

[ap1100]

Does it matter? Why would the other girl want a dishonest punk like that? You should always go into situations expecting nothing to change, because it usually won't. He's a dirtbag who probably doesn't even consider the "girlfriend" his girlfriend; he's just getting as much play as I can get.

The question I'd be asking if I were the other girl is, "if I disrespect myself so much as to let some two-timing dirtbag use me like this with no love, no commitment, no nothing, why would I expect a good guy to respect me and want to have a relationship or marry me?"

[Anonymous]

You have to ask yourself "what's going to happen when you and him get a little rocky, will he run to someone else? And you not know about it?"

[Deeplove55]

Yep if he did it to her he will do it to you just a matter of time until he gets bored or dissatisfied with you he will run to another girl on the side like he had with you. This is your choice. you reap what you sow

[Jayne]

She and him are WAY more than rocky haha. There's a reason he started to look for other options.

[Opinion Owner]

So let me ask you again, do you think he's going to tell you the truth about what he feels isn't working in your relationship, probably not (that's if he breaks away from this other girl). It seems easier for this guy to just start another relationship before the other one is even finished. there's just one thing you have to say to yourself when it happens to you: " you knew it was coming." Because you know what this guy is capable of in his values. So do whatever you want, just be aware.

[BizzEMuch]

Don't be ridiculous you guys! I've had boyfriends I've cheated on and I've had amazing boyfriends I haven't cheated on. If the amazing boyfriends had never dated me because I was a cheater with someone else, I can't even imagine where I'd be right now. As long as your choosing decent spouses most people don't go in to a relationship with the intention of cheating.