It's like all they want in life is a boyfriend. Not All girls but a majority of them are so desperate for a boyfriend.
Why are girls so desperate to be in a relationship?
I believe it is because this is usually the age girls start dating. They hear their friends talking about their relationships and they crave that affection. Personally, I have deep crushes but I never make a boyfriend my first priority in my life. I have a music career, and that always is before anything else. I do admit I crave the affection sometimes. I also admit I want to experience this new type of relationship. My friends were talking about their boyfriends and I asked a question. Their response was "You dont understand because you dont have a bf. Get one one day and you wilk know" and that got me frustrated. I can use common sense. Boyfriends are not the world, if anything they are just a weird label. I would rather sing and play guitar all my life. If I had to choose a milkion dollard and my crush to marry me or no money anf my music, I woukd chose the no money but with music. Music is the only thing that means everything on earth to me, and stupid labels could never take that away from me.
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I see it in men to. Going from one relationship to another. A lot of people just don't want to be alone.. ever.. it seems. Quit funny. I'm not that way. I've only had 1 relationship before my current.. long though. And in between I just dated a lot and had a lot of friends with benefits. I also don't fall in love easily. That's why relationships are just an extra for me but not a life's wish. I was a very happy single lol..
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Not all girls are like that. I was single for a long time before I found my current boyfriend and I couldn't be happier.
Desperation would have been dating every single guy, left right and center just to say that I was in a relationship. I'm 22, I'll be 23 soon and at this point, I think that the relationships you're in now could be the ones that you could be in for the rest of your life.
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I don't agree with the way you characterize the female half of the human race. The vast majority of girls are heterosexual. It is perfectly normal and natural that, once they reach a certain age, they would long for and want to have a romantic/sexual connection with a guy. That doesn't make them desperate, certainly not any more so than guys longing for the same thing with girls. It's simply the way of the world, the birds and the bees. It's nature.
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Girls need to learn not to settle for just any guy giving her attention. While I clearly miss all the nice stuff that come from being in a relationship and avoiding getting into a new one anytime soon, thinking years haha. But yeah girls now a days need to give themselves the respect they deserve. Stay classy and true to who they are. You need to be happy with yourself first before looking for someone and let's admit it most times we find someone when we're not looking so yep
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Definitely not all girls. Some of my friends are serious "boyfriend havers" and it's like they aren't happy unless they are in a relationship, which is crazy. I have spent the last several years not wanting a relationship at all. I would enjoy the companionship but I was completely turned off from wanting a real relationship. I feel like now I'm at a place in my life where I would like something serious. But I have never ever felt desperate to be in a relationship.
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Most girls hate being alone. They sit in bed at night and realize no one is there to comfort them. Sometimes their girlfriends can be too much to handle and you don't want to deal with that. They don't WANT a boyfriend. But sometimes they feel as if they NEED a boyfriend.
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I wanted one. It's a special type of companionship that you can't get from your friends. Plus it's the potential seed of a family. However it took me a long time to find one because some girls just want anyone so they can have a boyfriend but I looked for a true connection.
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who doesn't? guys are the same. that's how humans are. i find it more desperate how many man just want to get laid with as many chicks as possible. there's nothing wrong with wanting an emotional comfort and someone who got your bag
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Insecurity is a big one! I honestly never cared.. In HIGHSCHOOL when all my friends were dating and going to prom I was focusing on my future and getting my grades while they failed. I have a lifetime of dating and finding "the one" and now that I'm in college I dont even really want to date
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There's so many kind of relationships.
And I don't care about having a boyfriend.
Hugs, kisses, cuddling, gah, so annoying.
All i want is to , become smarter with every day, have money for taking care of my parents and buying my videogames -
That's sadly true . Girls just need attention and affection ,they want to feel loved and know they have someone who can protect them and be there on bad times . I feel it's not just a "boyfriend" job. Family can also give you all that, friends. But I guess, everyone need that ONE person.
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I think it's so that we can show 'em off. You'll have every eye on you, you'll be the talk of the town and you'll have every girl wishing they were you if you have the hottest guy in town wrapped around your finger. Also, girls want that cute relationship where you take cute pictures together and you cuddle and you tell eachother everything. Basically, girls want a bestfriend that they don't have to be jealous of or compete with, just one they can kiss :) *just my opinion, don't hate*
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Some are desperate for a boyfriend. Some aren't.
On that note why are men so desperate to get laid? - 315 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
I want a woman more than anything. I think it's pretty natural. Why don't you?
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i just want someone to be close and intimate with. just like guys do, we get lonely! however, I'll never ever settle for just anyone. THAT'S desperation
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Listen, we are not desperate. We just need a lot of fanfictions. So our standards are high. We want someone who will hold us when we're sad, wipe away our tears, make us laugh, have fun, go on adventures with, cuddle with, sent cute goodnight messages, etc. I think all of us girls wants that. So, yea.
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I've seen some guys like that too. No one ever taught them to be a whole...
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Those are the ones that think they won't get married and will die alone
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Because that's how God created us, Its His divine plan, to allow women to want to have a husband, so they can have their family. There's nothing wrong with that, That is our purpose as human beings to be together, God's creation.
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Cause I don't want to be alone. I want someone. but that doesn't mean I'm going to settle for anyone.
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Because they just want attention. They compete with other girls for who can get the guy and the better guy.
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Some just doesn't really have a goal set for them, and they want someone in their life who is there to tell them that they should make a goal, and be supportive of them. Some girls need a guy in that way, and some just because they want to.
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Because they are shy to be single.They don't want people to think that they were rejected by the guys.
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