Why does he want me to stay all night?

[Anonymous]

We have all the sex stuff done by 10 or 11 and then we go to sleep, I usually wake up around 2 or 3 in the morning and I get dressed and leave. Well, occasionally I will stay until the morning and leave when he leaves for work. Every time I do stay all night, he makes sure to say something like "Isn't it better waking up now and not at 3?" or "I really like that you stayed all night." Then he makes me my coffee and gets ready for work

Well, is he developing feelings for me? Why does he want me there all night if we are just sleeping?

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Oh, and several days he has texted or told me when I got to his place, "I didn't know you were leaving early again. I woke up at 4 and you weren't here and I got worried..I don't know why I got worried, but I did for a second"

[Anonymous]

Can i also have advices from males here. When man likes u n tells u how nice u r but he doesn't know what he wants. What is best to do in this case? Stop communicating with him? I have done it once n he was the one to contact me again after 3 weeks. We continued seeing each other as I have feelings for him. He is kind, nice, serious man at his 40s. He isn't a player.

[LivelyMind]

Cuz he is obviously gaining feeling for you , he is dropping hints tht he is willing to navigate from a a friends with benefits 2 a serious relationship by implying you stay longer.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily if you are just FWB. I think he might just be trying to be nice. If that is your only indication I wouldn't say he's developing feelings

[aggregate]

Maybe he sleeps better knowing your beside him? He finds your presence relaxing and it helps him sleep knowing your next to him. Is there cuddling involved in the sleeping? spooning, him holding you, you holding him, etc.

[Asker]

Always. If we aren't cuddling already he pulls me over to him to cuddle and is all "Come heeeree.." but after I get over there I guess he thinks he annoyed me cause he adds ".. I mean if you want to"

[aggregate]

then yes. he enjoys the physical contact with you and just the feeling of you being near. and yes he does have feelings for you if that is the case. sounds like a good guy

[Asker]

Yaaaay

[Littletad]

It seems like he loves having you stay rather than leaving at night. It's a small step to show that he prefers if you stayed with him.

[male1234567890]

Just sleeping?! Guys don't sleep just to sleep with girls, they have emotions too! If he wants you to stay to the morning then it means that he likes you and yes he has feelings for you, less or more.

[udolipixie]

Well, is he developing feelings for me? No if that's what you're basing it on

Why does he want me there all night if we are just sleeping? He may like not waking up alone

[Dan2287]

hes developing feelings for you - believe it or not its possible for this to happen to guys...

[AndyWes]

Because even a guy is human, and there's something wonderful about waking up to a girl you love.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he has feeling for you,count yourself lucky,most guy aren't that considerate

[toulouse]

thats a choice for whoever is bothered by it- is not it. its not lucky to recieve common courtesy pathological, to accept anything else.

[Anonymous]

It is nice waking up next to someone. It means exactly that: he likes being around you.

[mattyb]

You can't seriously be this obtuse could you?

[Asker]

You can't seriously be asking me if I just asked something when I obviously just did.