I'm a nice guy. I have balls and I stand up for myself when people cast me down. But, I treat the girls with respect. Do I get a second look? Fuck no. Women, all women at that, just bitch about how their boyfriend is an asshole, while I sit on the sidelines and shake my head. Being nice isn't about agreeing insensically with the girl, being nice is about respect. When you treat girls with respect, you get f*** ALL for a relationship. Why? Because, no matter HOW many women say they want a nice guy, women are just as much a slave to their sexuality as they bitch their boyfriend is. They think that jerks are hot. They think that nice guys are not worth their time in a relationship, so they clump them as friends and leave them at that. When the nice guy makes a move, she says she "doesn't want to damage the friendship" which is another way of saying "you're not worth my time". I've f***ing had it with that bullsh*t. And then they wonder why their relationships don't last. If you stupid f***ing bimbos would realize that relationships are BUILT on friendship, rather than sexuality, it would suddenly become much more clear who is "worth your time".