Would you be uncomfortable seeing your girlfriend laughing with another man?

Question

It's been said that "a good laugh is the way to a lady's heart"

Would it make you feel that you are "losing" her?

It happened to me today, was laughing with a male friend out on the grass at university during a break. Bf's class finished and came out to join us, he walked in when we were laughing really hard at something.

He told me later he was a little annoyed...why?

Thoughts / opinions / experiences?

Damanmoney · Accepted Answer

This is the problem with the younger generation. Yes, I’d be pissed wares the boundaries. This is a form of emotional cheating. This is why you have a boyfriend to spend that time with. this is the problem with liberal perspective and the younger generation. Unless your flighty and don’t care and have a grass is always greener attitude, cut it out. If there was any touching or caressing he should beat the guys a sphinx. This is what’s wrong with people after generation x. Ware are boundaries? You are as one. Facebook email and all such things are for the viewing. No secrets. Can I see our mail in mailbox? This is like lies and cheating with exacuses. It’s sad people need google to tell them how to think anymore. If you saw this few times unless you are shallow you would be hurt and care a lot;. Why not laugh with a girl? Why a man you have one. Why is this even a question to ask if you have a man. You must invite these men with your Ora. Don’t and find a woman to do this with. And let him know about it. End of story men have penis and women have Virginia. We see all the things that can happen women cheating on phone having sex on porn hub looking at bigger cranks on cams. We all know. And men don’t just trust you have to build that and certain boundaries still exist. What if? But what is, is you can’t trust anything without seeing and this is just how life is. Throw away superficial reasons of trust because smart men know any man that believes in that gets cheated on or screwed with. And nearly all women believe they have a right to harbor lies and that not saying is not lying. You know men are this way. And that’s why you are even here to gather support from people that look for alternative reasoning. This is how people become liberal. By supporting each other’s poor reasoning. It’s a disease that eventually leads to corruption. It’s hard to be someone that people look up to and easy to agree with dog poop.

RedThread78 · Accepted Answer

Hmmm if I was dating a girl she would be allowed to have male friends because I wouldn't date somebody I didn't trust anyway. It wouldn't bother me.. I'd probably laugh at jokes from my female friends too.. it's whatever to me.

We all get irrational jealousy at times though and it's understandable.

jess_x3 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say this is a jealousy issue. Perhaps he needs some reassurance that he is the one you care about. It's harder for some people to be okay seeing their significant other with another male/female, if they are feeling a bit insecure about the relationship.

Remind on a regular basis that you care for him not just with your words but actions as well.

Hope that helps.

Eiffelgirl21 · Accepted Answer

For some..it is hard to see their SO talking and having a good time without them and

with the opposite gender. He might think that the guy actually had a chance with you and

is a little insecure about it. Just reassure him that he doesn't..and ask if there is anything you

can do to help.

MrWrong · Answer

Depends on the guy. It's not a matter of whether or not I trust her, it's him. It's also not a matter of whether or not I'm afraid she'd do anything with him in a moment of weakness, I just don't like it if a guy who is that close to my girl wants to bone her, especially if he would given the chance.

I don't expect my girl to spend her time around a bunch of eunuchs, I just don't like other men. I'm not going to tell her who she will and won't spend her time with, though.

TacoToker · Answer

If she/you were laughing at the little things that aren't very funny (even to a male that laughs pretty much at everything), such as talking slowly, or dragging on words. Those things are not very funny when the guy is clearing doing it for a response, mainly from the female.

Do you find that ok? Its an issue I've had lately with my girlfriend. It rarely happens (once in the last year) but that's why it alarms me. Its not like that's just her normal behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that you're having a good time without your boyfriend means that you don't need him. Also, the fact that the other guy made you laugh really hard means you can leave your boyfriend for him. I would be annoyed myself.

Black_Swan_12 · Answer

I don't mind, what's wrong with laughing with a friend?  It happens all the time :)

ROTFLMFAO · Answer

Of course I'd be mad if my girlfriend gave another guy all her attention. "Stop making my girlfriend laugh. I am the funny man here! Stop trying to get in her pants. She's mine."

Ezmotts · Answer

Once I liked this girl so much that I was annoyed every time she'd even wave to a guy.

Dom163 · Answer

I know where interests lie if someone says something funny and she forces herself not to laugh so I don't get "mad" then I would be upset

groundbreakingpost · Answer

Why would my s. o. be mirthful bother me unless it involves violating boundaries?

Would you be uncomfortable seeing your girlfriend laughing with another man?

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