Women have more options than men do?

[jacar288yahoocom]

I hate it when they rejected you then they always say keeping trying keeping head up but they don't realize how much rejected really hurt guys. you know why men less approach women? Because we are very fear of rejected, if girls never experience with ask guys I would like you to give try then rejected you so you will know how we feel. Women have more option than men but men have only 1 or 2 options it not fair. Women can pick any men they want without trying they are so picky. I don't blame men for angry and give up on love I know how they feel, because I give up on girls for very long time I doubt I will find love in American they are useless bitches these days. Please don't tell me be yourself or don't give up or keeping trying if we keeping trying and getting rejected it will hurt men more we don't want to deal with that. That why men didn't approach women much as use to be.

[udolipixie]

Women have more option than men do? Not really men have the option of fat girls, ugly girls, girls the age of consent, buying women, and mail order brides. Men have these options no matter their age.

Women only have options if they're attractive and when they're young.

Guys have more options and their options last no matter their own attractiveness or age.

"but they don't realize how much rejected really hurt guys"

So what worst pain in life. Also pretty sure most women know how much rejection hurts which is why they want to know how to nicely rejection a guy.

"Because we are very fear of rejected, if girls never experience with ask guys I would like you to give try then rejected you so you will know how we feel"

Most girls feel rejection everyday with how the media wants them to look/act, with how guys want them to look/act, and with their own dislike of their bodies.

"Women can pick any men they want without trying they are so picky"

If she's attractive and young. The rest of the time the man has to return that attraction. Pretty sure obese girls can't pick any hot guy they want.

"I doubt I will find love in American they are useless bitches these days"

Same goes for the men. Most are whiny self centered guys who think being nice means girls should date//f*ck them instead of meaning you're a decent human being and girls should date/f*ck them because the girls are attracted to him.

"That why men didn't approach women much as use to be."

LMAO I'm still getting approached at least 20 times a day.

[jacar288yahoocom]

u getting approach at 20 times a day? sound bullsh*t

[udolipixie]

I don't lie. I detest lies & liars.

Yep I recently started counting up how many times I get approach and stop at my age. I do get approached after 20. It's something to amuse myself with you know besides the amusement from rejecting the guy. lol

[jacar288yahoocom]

Sad, American women really messed up and they think it funny to rejected guys. I don't believe you every words you say

[kheserthorpe]

She may or may not be exagerating, but its pretty much accurate.

Young, hot women have all the options in the world, but it doesn't last. An average looking 40 year old guy with an okay job has far, far better options then a woman in the same position.

[jacar288yahoocom]

True that.

[Katyperry]

wow then that's great 20x a day can boost your self confidence lol... well me been rejected several times HAHAHHAHA :)))

[udolipixie]

"Sad, American women really messed up and they think it funny to rejected guys. I don't believe you every words you say"

So what most American men think sexual assault should go unpunished and rape is the only sex crime worth punishing.

Also how did you get me thinking it's fun = American women?

Don't believe what I say just don't call me a liar or make me out to be one.

@kheserthorpe

Which is exactly why guys need to stop whining about being butthurt over rejection.

[jacar288yahoocom]

I called you a liar and I think you will made out to be one since you are proud to getting approach yea right (scoff) then you need to stop complain and nagging rude rejected then we won't complain about rejected as simple.

[udolipixie]

"since you are proud to getting approach yea right"

Not proud at all about getting approached. Guys will approach anyone. It's like being called attractive by a guy- absolutely meaningless.

"then you need to stop complain and nagging rude rejected then we won't complain about rejected as simple."

Actually I don't need to since guys will most likely never stop complaining about rejection.

How can I complain & be proud of it? o.O

Nagging rude? what the licorice is that?

[jacar288yahoocom]

They have a good reason to complain about rejected because they don't give nice guys a chance but yet, they give bad boys a chance? oh comn on! if you are not proud at getting approacah then why you brag about hey I got 20 time approach a day. yea right mrs. 20 time approaches

[udolipixie]

"They have a good reason to complain about rejected because they don't give nice guys a chance but yet, they give bad boys a chance?"

So what guys don't give obese or ugly girls a chance based on their niceness.

You don't give people chances in romance you date whoever you're attracted to. Most girls want want a guy they are attracted to whose nice to them not a nice guy.

Brag...lol I was proving you wrong on the men don't approach women much.

[jacar288yahoocom]

"Most girls want want a guy they are attracted to whose nice to them not a nice guy". Nice is nice same thing so you don't give a chance with nice guys? interesting.

"So what guys don't give obese or ugly girls a chance based on their niceness"

Speak for yourself because I didn't say ugly girls

Heck no, I don't give obese or ugly girls a chance. I want girl who love fitness and be beautiful woman for me I have no problem look good for her as well what the problem?

[udolipixie]

"Nice is nice same thing so you don't give a chance with nice guys? interesting."

Nope there is a difference between a guy who is nice & a nice guy. A nice guy has nothing of value except his niceness.

"I want girl who love fitness and be beautiful woman for me I have no problem look good for her as well what the problem?"

Problem is most nice guys expect beauty from girls but expect girls to look past his physical flaws and value his niceness. Girls want looks & niceness.

[jacar288yahoocom]

nice guys have value like save virgin for someone special and believe in his value like give provider that what girls want? you rather date jerks or nice guys? which one? you saying nice have nothing value yet, you say girls want niceness? you have bipolar or something?

[udolipixie]

"you saying nice have nothing value yet, you say girls want niceness? you have bipolar or something?"

Apparently you can't understand that girls want more than nice. They want attractive, chemistry, and niceness.

Just like there are guys who want more than pretty from a girl.

Nice by itself isn't going to get a lot of girls because if girls just wanted nice they'd get a dog.

[jacar288yahoocom]

That chemistry I'm not very good at at it. But two of three I have it. I understand attractive but I saw most beautiful women with average men or ugly men I didn't understand how he have it and I don't have it? You are very right about I can't understand at women and I guess I will never understand girls for the rest of my life.

[udolipixie]

understand attractive but I saw most beautiful women with average men or ugly men I didn't understand how he have it and I don't have it?

He either had chemistry, status, or wealth.

As for why he had chemistry & you didn't..you don't always get what you want. LMAO

[jacar288yahoocom]

I think weath is most common thing girls go for it. You really enjoy ruin my life you didn't want me to get girlfriend that the reason I stay away from American women because I know women are evil. I don't blame handsome being a**hole, jerks, bastard because of you and your evil women.

[udolipixie]

You really enjoy ruin my life you didn't want me to get girlfriend that the reason I stay away from American women because I know women are evil.

^ lol exactly how can I ruin your life? exactly how do you know I don't want you to have a girlfriend. Cool stay away from American women & go abroad.

I don't blame handsome being a**hole, jerks, bastard because of you and your evil women.

^ guess you also don't blame beautiful/attractive girls being b*tches then

[jacar288yahoocom]

Believe me I will be broke virgin by foreign and heck I will get my foreign girlfriend if you don't believe me then watch me. I'm for real I'm not joking with u. Yea you would love to ruin my life you will make sure I don't have American girlfriend I can feel it. I don't think beautiful women and handsome men can be together because of drama but I will date foreign women very soon trust me. they are better than you and more ladylike than u

[udolipixie]

Believe me I will be broke virgin by foreign and heck I will get my foreign girlfriend if you don't believe me then watch me. I'm for real I'm not joking with u.

^ I really could care less

Yea you would love to ruin my life you will make sure I don't have American girlfriend I can feel it.

^ your spidey senses are wrong. I could care less about what you do.

[udolipixie]

I don't think beautiful women and handsome men can be together because of drama but I will date foreign women very soon trust me.

^ Yet plenty of hot guys and girls are together drama free

they are better than you and more ladylike than u

^ you keep believing that. though you shouldn't complain if girls don't date nice guys because they want someone better and more attractive than the nice guy LMAO

[jacar288yahoocom]

Really yea for in movies not real life couples you watch TV too much.

Ok, you rather have jerks hit you everyday with no regret than nice guys treat you like queen?

Are you saying I'm ugly? thank you very much that so nice of you say aww!

Better and attractive than nice guy? ha! I saw many women with ugly men how they better than nice guys?

[jacar288yahoocom]

Ok if you care less about what I saying then why you still talking to me? you sound you care about what I do and what I say. I think you fall in love with me but I'm not fall in love with u.

[udolipixie]

Really yea for in movies not real life couples you watch TV too much.

^ LMAO in my social circle hot guys end up with hot girls.

Ok, you rather have jerks hit you everyday with no regret than nice guys treat you like queen?

^ lol guys and their extremes. Apparently guys only come in 2 forms- nice or jerk.

Are you saying I'm ugly? thank you very much that so nice of you say aww!

^ don't project your issues on me

[udolipixie]

Better and attractive than nice guy? ha! I saw many women with ugly men how they better than nice guys?

^ those women may have gone for personality, status, or wealth and to those women those things are better.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Bulls***t I don't believe you just make up prove to me.

Yea you make sound like you think I'm ugly but I'm not bother why because inside of you u think I'm handsome.

U haven't answer about attractive. You saying attractive then change personality? are you serious? OK would you date ugly men?

[jacar288yahoocom]

u sound so familar I have talk to you before? if yes then why you spying on me?

[udolipixie]

lol now you ruined it.

You ranted & rambled in another one of my answers. you were tolling and I knew it but you admitted to it which ruined the game.

another game you ruined. bye

[jacar288yahoocom]

What the hell are you talking about? I don't play that game. why I ruined it? I was not troll I was serious. I knew that you because you alway copy and then paste that sound so u. You have crush on me? something wrong with u. I was very serious about foreign women. I won't date American women because nobody can make fall for American women

[udolipixie]

Troll all you want just don't make me out to be a liar.

You admitted you were trolling and your question and responses were just jokes.

You have crush on me? you played that card after you admitted you were trolling and I stated I was bored and leaving. I don't do crushes.

bye LMAO XD

[jacar288yahoocom]

Oh OK whatever you say you don't believe me that fine with me if you bored then block me or just don't talk to me use your common sense. I think you do have crush on me but you won't admit it that OK take your time then tell me the truth you have crush on me I won't mad at you because I know you think I'm sexy you can't talk to me because you love me.

[mangageek]

i have asked guys out before and been rejected each time :( and I don't consider myself undateable or unattractive. I get creeped on quite often by people downtown. I'm just always the friend and not the girlfriend. I am fighting with myself to keep putting myself out there but it gets difficult at times. I'm not ready to give up but I feel your pain. sorry I can't really answer your question, I'm just saying you're not alone in this

[jacar288yahoocom]

Thanks for understanding instead of snobs bitches who don't care about how guys feeling

[mangageek]

i feel your pain :( just found out today that the guy I like already likes someone else. a mutual friend let me know even though he doesn't know who he likes instead *sigh* well at least I didn't ask him out and get shot down. I think everyone should have ask someone else out a few times, I have so much more respect for guys now that I know how tough it can be to put yourself out there. it's an experience everyone should have so they know to let people down gently if need be

[paintingtherosesred]

Rejection is okay. It's normal. It hurts but only for a little bit. I was rejected by a guy I asked out. I rejected guys who asked me out. It just means that maybe that person is looking for something else. It's a part of life. It's better to reject them now than lie to them.

[Anonymous]

Women have more options now but men are like wine, we're better with time ;) You just wait till a single, childless woman approaches menopause...can you say desperation? Women basically just want to have "fun" at this age, but they don't realize that this translates into passing up what would have been wonderful partners who would care for them. Oh well...life's a bitch my friend!

[jacar288yahoocom]

Yea, I agree with you I feel sorry for girls rejected guys then later they saw guys doing well and she trying to get them where rejected them in first place and now they get rejected karma is bitch my friend.

[Opinion Owner]

Basically, and I'm a firm believer that revenge is a dish best served cold ;)

[jacar288yahoocom]

I would love to see women cry and complain why they don't have nice guys lol too bad for them bro Yea revenge is best

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly, nothing taste better than a warm glass of woman tears :)

[jacar288yahoocom]

Lol yea!

[Opinion Owner]

Make that two, one for you and one for me MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

[jacar288yahoocom]

They don't know what they want they always go for jerks who love hit women then women realize it not worth and go back to them who ask women in first place then rejected them and they went to cry with bitches lol

[Opinion Owner]

I know it all brotha, I know it all too well.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Yea bro, That why American really busted up sad I rather go for foreign women they are more approachable and more friendly and most important thing they are more grace ladylike not afraid to talk to you make you feel like man

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! I've been thinking of leaving this country too. American women suck, they're too stuck up.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Yea and they too needy and American women think they are sexy really? I think they are most obsess fat women in all world lol. Yea foreign women is better in shape and more sexy than American

[martyfellow]

this is why I pinch them sometimes, just for the heck of it.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Yea I agree with you man

[Katyperry]

Well everyone is different, we do have a different thoughts, different virtues,and different attitude... Me,ive been rejected several times and it hurts me a lot that's why I know how it felts to be rejected and as much as possible if someone that I don't like I am very honest and nice,tell him straight that I'm not interested in relationship thing but I am VERY interested in a friendship thing :)))

[jacar288yahoocom]

I have no problem with women tell me very straight forward about they are not ready for relationship but they have no problem with friendship that make me respect them more than women won't tell you the reason why they rejected it like almost they are playing games I don't appricate it

[Katyperry]

ohhh then that's the wrong thing, as what I've said everyone is different but feel free to ask them WHY? to make you feel comfortable... okay? :)

[jacar288yahoocom]

Well, I don't know if I can approach them because it hard to tell their body language. it didn't make me comfortable. I think I'm better off without asking women out

[Katyperry]

lol... well its not a solution in your problem even if you're not comfortable still feel free to ask so that those questions on your mind will be answered...

[MrzSushiiBunnii]

Being realistic, not every girl you like or are attracted to is going to feel the same way. Not to say that you can't pull another girl who seems similar, just that particular girl isn't for you. Hell! , she's doing you a favor, because she probably would have been a waist of time! It is true that girls are more picky, but that's just the way it is.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Yea of course they are more picky that make me hard to find right one they always playing hard to get. That make me lost interested in them very quickly

[MrzSushiiBunnii]

I mean, it is what it is. You just gotta learn how to tell if a girl in interested as well. Not every girl is gunna reject you. Just keep that in mind.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Well, I'm not read minder person but I don't know how to tell if she is in interested. I don't know if I want to approach them to be honset with u.

[MrzSushiiBunnii]

Well good luck !

[blossom7409]

I used to get rejected quite a bit now things have become better. rejection from both sides hurts nothing is cool about someone saying the don't want you or don't want you in that way. So its often hard for women to trust and get back out there and try again. men sometimes even use women for sex and then dump them after that's a hard thing to bare for most women. so we may have options but reject all around just hurts especially when you think everything about that person is perfect for you.

[Anonymous]

Oh hun, I'll agree just give up lol you've already gotten to the stage where you're starting to hate women. Get a dog :) Hell on a lonely night you can put a little bit of peanut butter on yourself.

Unfortunately if you don't want to get rejected expect to be alone.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Easy for you because you don't have to deal with rejected and we have to deal with rejected you think rejected is funny? I would like to you give a try to ask guy then tell me when he rejected you :)

[Opinion Owner]

I've dealt with rejection before EVERYBODY has. Whether it's being broken up with, whether it's not getting a job, I was a telemarketer for a bit and a door-knocker so there was definitely rejection.. you really gotta look at it this way - If you don't try or if you try and get rejected you've got the same result. But if you try you've got more of a chance of getting somewhere. I'm not going to try and convince you to try though cause I just don't give a crap!

[ihatetakingcharge]

yeah they have the final say, the choosing, selecting power, all they have to do is welcome or deny advances

[jacar288yahoocom]

Of course and they are so damn picky I knew I lost when women are picky I said forget it!

[moviedude714]

of course they do, a**holes like Asailum of full of sh*t

[jacar288yahoocom]

Lol yea I feel your pain

[Ezmotts]

Life's unfair man, men and women are both f***ed in different ways. I personally would take getting rejected over bleeding for a week.

[dIO_oIb]

Is that really true, can we have any man we want?

[jacar288yahoocom]

They can if women work out and dress nice then they can get any men.

[dIO_oIb]

But, in that sense, we have to "work" and do our part as well? Women have to physically attract guys, while guys (more or less) have to emotionally attract women.

[jacar288yahoocom]

U got a point but if nice guys care about you and emotionally attract women but yet, they go for jerks? that the problem with women that why I feel angry and hopeless.

[dIO_oIb]

I agree, MOST (not all) women do that. And I've wondered why, the only logical explanation I can think of is the confidence factor most douchey guys have that nice guys don't. It's a f***ed up cycle, nice guys don't have confidence because the majority of girls don't give them play, they get no play 'cause they have lower confidence. Sucks really. :\ If more women realized confidence isn't that big of a deal maybe sh*t would be different.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Yea that what I trying to tell them but they don't listen did I care and love women? you bet of course but they messed up in their brain who think change jerks into nice guys it gonna not happen believe me. Yea maybe nice guys are boring but at least they respect you and give you compliment when you feel down what wrong with that? I hear women nice guys are pushover and dorrmat, well you are wrong because I'm no doormat or pushover if they try to pushover me then they will have problem with me.

[jacar288yahoocom]

Let me tell you about nice guys they can protect you and they can kick bad boys ass believe me I saw it in my life. I remember one bad boy tried to get me mad and fight him then I get mad at him and say you want fight? guess what? he run away little scared cat true story

[socalgamehater2006]

they sure do

[jacar288yahoocom]

yea it not fair man