because I personally find this behavior very childish and immature. If the guy is going through things and need space for a while, why can't he... Show More
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I guess I may need more info like how long you've been together. If it were me I would let a girl know what's up and say I need some space. But if I'm dealing with serious issues or something embarssing I would probably flake for a while. Like I said it depends. If I was dating for 2 months and we weren't that serious I would say something like... hey I really like you but I have to deal with something myself and it may take a while before I'm ready to see you again. But again I know friends of mine who would use this tactic to hunt around for something better until luck ran out and they went back to their sure fire girl.