If a guy disappears and reappears again, how much does he like the girl?
because I personally find this behavior very childish and immature. If the guy is going through things and need space for a while, why can't he tell me beforehand? This is like totally ignoring girl's feelings!
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Most Helpful Opinion
I guess I may need more info like how long you've been together. If it were me I would let a girl know what's up and say I need some space. But if I'm dealing with serious issues or something embarssing I would probably flake for a while. Like I said it depends. If I was dating for 2 months and we weren't that serious I would say something like... hey I really like you but I have to deal with something myself and it may take a while before I'm ready to see you again. But again I know friends of mine who would use this tactic to hunt around for something better until luck ran out and they went back to their sure fire girl.
What Guys Said 1
If he truly cared, he would be upfront about his feelings, so that then he wouldn't be hurting yours by appearing and reappearing seemingly at random.
What Girls Said 2
Disappearing on its own shows how much he's really neglecting your feelings.
he doesn't like you. he comes back to you when there is no one else there