You got it wrong. You got it all wrong. Some people are extremely shy for various reasons.
Such as:
-ashamed of themselves/ self-conscious
-having been "burned" before
-geniuinely afraid of rejection
-just not knowing what to say
It's not always easy and many things can happen to erode one's self esteem.
A shy person can be very interested and not know what to say or do.
I'm one of them.
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I think you are wrong; there are such things as shy guys. I for example, will observe a girl that I am interested in of a while to make sure she is the one I want to make move on to. At times, it takes months to do so. Sometimes she noticed it and got turned off because I didn't make a move soon enough but that's the risk I run.
No, there are plenty of shy guys (just as there are women) out there.
If you want something to happen between you two, just keep trying, send him obvious signals (guys usually aren't good with subtle hints)... talk to him often, be friendly and open, etc...
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While it's true guys will often go out of their way to talk to girls they like, there still is definitely such a thing as a shy guy (I'm one), and I rarely chase a girl. If a girl plays hard to get, then I just assume she's not interested and leave her alone. I'd say yes try making eye contact and talking to him more.
Nope. I won't pursue much.
No, there are many shy guys.
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