Is it true that there's no such thing as a shy guy and if a guy likes you he will chase you?

december1990
For instance I've been looking on dating sites... and I read that guys are will go out of their way to ask you out... if they like you.. I like this guy I talked to him... like a conversation.. I'm usually shy so I'm trying to overcome that and I was like "Oh what the hell I will talk to him to overcome anxiety" and so I did.. But I'm hoping that made it clear I'm interested in him.. But in class I try to avoid him lol because I don't want him to know I like him... But I wonder why he's not going after me lol or talking to me? Maybe I didn't give him a chance and when he comes near me I kinda try to go away because I'm nervous around him... So I'm wondering.. If a guy really likes you will he go out of his way to talk to you? I already talked to him first.. Should I wait for him to talk to me? Or should I try making eye contact and talking to him? Or none of that... and just forget about the guy and assume he doesn't like me?
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Thank you guys for your answers.. I just read on this Dating Advice Forum that guys will always go after what they want.. and I'm just wondering since he's not talking to me right away is he not interested? I don't know lol... Sigh
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I'm not even sure if I like this guy I think I'm just getting desperate for a boyfriend. I need to calm myself down... Lol and be happy being single for now.
Is it true that there's no such thing as a shy guy and if a guy likes you he will chase you?
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