Hehe, shy guys ARE cute...I think it's a positive character trait...as long as it's an intial shy thing that you can open up a little more as you get to know the person.
Probably just a stereotype, but I tend to like shy guys because it feels like they are more open-minded, easy going, caring people...& not too loud, rowdy, and self-centered...but that's just my experience.
Oh! and I think they listen better-a definite plus ;-)
Just try to be brave and show the girl you like her somehow, otherwise she'll get away :,(
Every girl is different and some do and some dont. To be honest, this may sound brutal and sallow because it is, but generally it has to do with looks. If the guy is really cute and shy, girls will think of him as being sensitive and sweet and a gentleman, but if the guy is weird-looking, shyness is a turn off. Its not fair but this is the way things are...
Yes, girls do like shy guys. Typically, it takes a while for these kinds of guys to catch a girl's attention. I actually really like this shy guy. Previously, I have dated guys who are more confident and outgoing, actually he was confident, outgoing, and arrogant. Basically, I think shy men are usually less arrogant and probably tend to be better people. (I'm also a shy girl so I feel I have no right to judge. ) As long as he doesn't flat out sit there and stare at me, never uttering a word, it's all good.
I can be shy and awkward at times but I'm generally not shy. I don't know how shyness comes into being attracted to a person to be honest.. If I approached a guy (which I never do) and he was shy I'd take it as he was uninterested but not that he was unattractive. If I was trying to be friends with a shy guy leading on to dating or if I was already dating them and they were always shy I'd find it really difficult to talk to them.
I've had that experience with a boy before he was so shy and anti-social that he wouldn't look at me much and he never ever started conversations.. if you didn't say anything to him he wouldn't say anything either and his replies were as simple as possible. We were only friends and even that was really difficult.
u see, there's this thing that guys try to do, is put all girl together under one group and then ask if girls like this or if girls like that, but you really cannot do that. there are a lot of diffrent types of girls who like a lot of diffrent types of guys. typically, girls like more confident and outgoing guys, but again, that all depends on the girl.
a girl likes it when a guy can be comfortable around her, and can be herself.
I love shy guys. It's always the kind of guy I'm attracted to which is bad in a way just because I'm shy so I have to work up courage to talk to them. There's this guy now that is shy and he sits in class and every time I look over at him I just melt. I'm probably weird but I'm so attracted to the fact that shy guys don't stand out. Well they stand out to me. When he looks at you and you can see he wants something but then he puts his head down cause he looks afraid. I would love to be able to get to know a guy like that and be able to tell him how much I love him and appreciate him, really boost his confidence and let him know it's okay and that I'm there for him. This guy in particular seems like he has a soft side and I like that. Guys need to feel loved too. :)
Well the strong and silent type is attractive but I generally like guys to take the lead and shy guys don't do that. I often like shy guys but nothing ever comes from it because no matter how much you make it clear your into them they often don't have the guts to actually go for it.
Yes I do, but I'm a shy girl so for ME (this is just me) it may be kinda hard to talk to a shy guy when I'm a shy person myself. Although don't get me wrong, I think shy guys are very attractive. Its mysterious.
you said yourself, girls here are liars...well not really. The true is since girls are dominated by emotions they tend to follow what is going through them at the moment. Loud obnoxious dude= confidence. The feelings of thrill and happiness. Shy guy= lack of confidence. Which brings the feelings of despair, confusion, fear, all negative emotions, which girls tend to avoid to the max. The true is shy guys are the last on girls lists.
Some do, yeah. Most girls, meaning the kind that aren't stuck up and self centers, are ok with it, but want a relationship with someone that they can talk to, so it wouldn't be a bad thing if you talked more, and not just to herm but to everyone.