Nice Girls are Boring and Finish Last?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I think they do. Girls are told that we should be nice, sweet and innocent and we'll find the right guy, but isn't that a bunch of BS? Most of the girls who get guys are less of the docile, nice girl and more of the good looking assertive types. So why do people tell girls that nice girls win? No they don't, the nice girls are usually ignored or unappreciated. Guys settle down with girls who have been with lots of people too, so even though people say no one wants a ho, if the ho is pretty enough and has a personality she can get a guy wanting to be with her too. What do you think?

[kelsay333]

I think in the end, the good girls always finish first.

the guys you're talking about chose what they think is the best they can get.

Good girls sometimes come across unapproachable, stuck up, anti-social, or too good for them.

While the 'hoes' are aggressive, like you've stated, and know up front what they want. And every guys likes to get laid. If they get it every night, who wouldn't want to leave that girl?

I'm not saying all guys think about is sex, yet when nothing's hard to work for..it's easier to always go back to that than fight for a girl that might be more effort and time.

Every guy I've talked to love good girls, and those are, like everyone says, what guys look for to marry. Even if the one you want ends up with a not so good girl, there's a guy out there that will gladly appreciate your self-respect. It's all about settling for no less than what you really deserve.

[Anonymous]

Amen!+5

I agree being a good girl has not done sh*t for me, and I am tired of it.

[sixstring]

If you get a guy interested he'll want a relationship. If you weren't a nice girl, you'd just be a hole for a guy to put his d*** in.

[Opinion Owner]

This is true, currently I was talking to someone and he respects me and everything is great between us the chemistry and attraction and been friends for a good while but he has been taken for about a year now. I know we would be good togeather but I'm not going to mess his relationship up or become the rebound either so it's a lose, lose.

[Senses]

Agreed!

Like anon girl said: being nice (=boring) hasn't done sh*t for me...

[MidnightToker]

i think nice girls think that being quiet and docile will land then a great guy end up losing out because they don't open up even a little, have fun with flirting, be sincere and get him to notice that sparkle from your eyes, if he is clueless then you are getting yourself into a wild goose chase. have a bit of confidence and tell him something great about you he should know, or something to help boost his confidence, complimenting yourself and him can be flirty. his response is that sign on where to go from there. until you get to the bridge don't worry about what is on the other side, because you can't ever be certain of anything.

[WoodWizzard87]

nice girl is like the nice guy at the bar, quiet, docile and not outgoing per se. Compared to a wild girl who like to party at the bar and be outgoing. If I meet a girl I want to date she is highly referred froma friend of a friend. I will never pick up a girlfriend froma bar setting. Most guys pick up flings at the bar, not much else.

[6Paul11]

Not true. I love nice girls. The "bad girls" might dress sexy and act like hos, but they are way more trouble than they are worth.

The only problem is that the nice girls don't approach men and make themselves accessible. Even worse, the nice girls often choose the not so nice boys. :(

[NothingGoldCanStay]

I don't date hoes. Sex sure, but not anything more serious. You will never see me bringing a hoe to my family. You will see me bring a nice sweat girl, I did this summer.

[sixstring]

I've dated nice girls exclusively, so did all my friends. So I don't know what you're talking about.

[bsoliday88]

heck no! nice girls get the good guys, bad girls get the bad guys, that simple!

[dwiller943]

Then why did nice guys chase the hoes while I was in hs?

[dwiller943]

You're basically on point there.

[MikeK]

No no no... it's nice GUYS who finish last

[dwiller943]

Good women get overlooked by good guys all the time while they're still young.

[moviedude714]

no it's only nice-guys that finish last

[dwiller943]

Funny!! Because I was the good girl that was overlooked a lot.