right, I've always been a straight talker, I mean through out my life I've spoke my mind, its gained me friends and lost some friends along the way, got into trouble, most of the time out of it.
im just wondering, how do girls find guys that speak there mind, and I do mean straight up, from there looks to the way they act, there performance in bed X_X. and also my feelings for them.
is this kewl or should I try and bite my tongue a little often?
and guys, do you like girls that speak there mind? I really appreciate a girl who can tell it exactly how it is, beats stupid mind games.
anyway let me know your thoughts.
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as long as you're not saying anything rude about me...however, the people that I've encountered and spoken they're mind were always bitchin...so no, I don't like people who speak their mind,only if they're trying to make friends or lighten a mood; a positive connotation.
I don't have a problem with anyone who wants to speak their mind. I myself am not one to be kept silent about something I feel strongly about, and I honestly don't care if anyone likes it or not because I'm to the point. But if you gain friends by speaking your mind, awesome. If you lose friends because they don't like what you have to say, the friendship probably wasn't meant to be in the first place. I'm not saying that it was irrelevant or anything, but friends come and go.