Guys, what makes you and all the guys around you stare at that girl? is it just about the looks?

[Anonymous]

firstly I'm not seeking for any kind of self esteem boost here, but I've been wondering about that for quite a long time, honestly I'm sure that the "stare-able" girls have something more than just their pretty face/hot body , am I wrong ?

obviously that question is my way to ask you why most guys tend to stare at me (stare not look).

I'm self conscious and I know I'm attractive, but my body or face isn't perfect, and there are some way more beautiful girls out there, so why should they stare at me ?

i also know I seem confident, I wear designer clothes/bags, and I might seem a bit hard to get( I really am actually but yo wouldn't know that),and serious I guess, (I'm not dumb or superficial I'm in a very hard program at uni)

so why is that ? just because my face is pretty and my body is well proportionate ? or is there more to it and sometimes you get a vibe from certain people ? is it just the wealthy appearance ? the challenge ?

also, attraction can be explained biologically, so if any of you know something about that : are there some more powerful hormones or something like that?

thanks for reading all that and hopefully answering :)

[VeinsofGlitter]

Not a guy, but I assure you people like what they like. Just because you wouldn't want to stare at yourself (the "these prettier girls than me' thinking) doesn't mean some guy isn't intrigued by you. I've heard from a guy, too, that if a guy is staring when you're around other people, he's watching how you treat others, etc.

[quovadis911]

if she's hot, then we look. We may think she's hot because she's sexy, or cute, or know's how to show off what she's got(eg, cleavage, short shorts, etc.)

[sfauo]

It's really not that complicated. If they stare it's because they're dazing off or they think you're attractive and nice to look at.

[Tukindz]

Yes.