Don't sleep with him. Manwhores stay manwhores. Sex doesn't make guys develop stronger feelings. There is actually a chemical reason that it happens to females -- a chemical called oxytocin in our brains. Guys don't get the same effect. So sex is just a fun activity to them, not something special that bonds them to one person (though it CAN be in a relationship, but the relationship comes first).
This is going to break your heart. I do hope you choose to not fall for his charms. Most guys who sleep around get along with females very well -- they are often fairly nice, thoughtful, funny and, of course, attractive. But that doesn't mean they are going to be kind to you in love. They will often cuddle, kiss, hang out , have long conversations, talk about their feelings, etc ... with two, three, four girls at a time. It is something they do with most girls ...
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nope guys do not fall in love after sex and they never will. My on again off again boyfriend is 29 and yes he is a manwhore he's only just settling down. ANd his kids didn't make him settle down his past super serious relationships did not make him settle down. I'ts a time in a guys life when he doesn't want to mess around as much
Dont do it baby girl! You sound like me when I was 16 maybe 17...I knew better but just thought I was going to make him different or change him..you are smart and you know better then try and make him all in love. Your setting yourself up for failure odnt try it he's going to end up breaking your heart
If he doesn't want a relationship, nothing is going to make him fall in love... Love is a choice in a way. You have to want to be in it for it to happen. You have to let go and let people in. You have to build that connection and those feelings. Until he wants more out of his girls than a hookup, then not a damn thing is going to change. People do change, but people don't make them change. They have to do it on their own.
They don't settle down. And no, a player won't fall in love after sex. He'll move on to another mountain to conquer just like you said.
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at the risk of sounding blunt- the answer is simply NO
Yea he's not gonna settle down until his 30s if your lucky
He'll settle down when 'HE' is ready
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