I am 26, worked security industry since 17, 18 stone, 5'6 foot tall, very active and very strong person can lift 380 kg on the weight machines (max) no problem, have an animalistic look, goaty, long soft strong curly hairy so someone can brush the fingers through have a warm heart, warm hands and warm strong arms, very funny and loyal like a puppy but this puppy is as big as a polar bear lol, just means I am more cuddly. Size, Style and Look mostly doesn't matter to girls, confident, perpressure and stuff like that is unknown to me, I just get on with it, just spending quality time, building trust, talking to them like human beings is all you need to develop into love. For me I have 2 problems I am a biker most female population in uk don't find a rough and ready biker appealing let alone with the life-style and money to go out to find someone then date them I am a gent and wanna please my lady, unfortunately is resulted from being homeless and in out of work all the time sucks I have 4 jobs on 0 hour contracts wtf! I do work hard at my jobs when I am called in. At the end of the day as long as you are clean, happy with what you see in the mirror and a healthy appearance then you have a good chance, but you mustn't be afraid of talking to them and if it goes nowhere it goes nowhere brush yourself down and move on, or sometimes if your observant enough to pick up the really subtle hints she maybe saying try harder, and a tip for girls being subtle can't be picked by most guys so if that poor gormless lad isn't noticed your hints then don't be concerned about being forward. You'll be amazed at how much people loose out on life just coz of fear, it's a real shame.