Why do I suck so much?

I'm about to turn 20 and I've never even come in physical contact with another female. I've never had the courage to ask a girl out. I've attempted, but my whole body seizes up and I have a panic attack, at which point I have to leave the building immediately and I hide in my apartment for hours.... Show More

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  • im about to turn 20 too, and I'm in the same situation as well.

    i get so nervous around attractive guys I get all nauseous and in some occasions, I've had to go to the bathroom and throw up. ha ha :(

    and then, I don't know what to talk about with guys. I feel like I bore them. or maybe I'm not interesting enough.

    but now, I'm starting to realize that if they don't like me, then too bad. I'm pretty happy with who I am.

    just hang in there.

    dont be too hard on yourself.

    you're still very young.

    you have to learn to love yourself. see the best in you.

    find some hobbies, or interests. try to be optimistic. it truly does make a difference. :D

    just focus on your career right now.

    women love a career driven man. :D

    if you don't focus so much on your love life, someone is bound to come along they always say love comes when you least expect it. :D