So this guy and I have had an on again off again flirting thing for months now. I didn't see or talk to him for a few weeks since he got a new job and is only home on weekends. But I ran into him at a friend's birthday party and just like every time we get together- sparks were there. We pre-drank (where we talked and he kept touching me to rub my arms or play-shove me) and then when we got to the bar his arm was around me pretty much the whole time. We got separated from the rest of the group I was driving home and ended up making out while we waited for them.
Then, once we got back to where everyone was sleeping, we hung out a bit longer, he walked me to my car and we made out a second time. I texted him the next day and he responded, but didn't keep the conversation going. And since then- nothing, he hasn't said a word to me at all. I'm so confused- we've been flirting for literally months and he's not the smooth player type so it's not likely he's playing me (he didn't push me to stay or go further at all, quite the opposite actually). And he was fairly sober (4 beers) during our encounter so it wasn't just him being drunk.
But why isn't he talking to me at all? I'm not sure if I should text him or give him some time and see if he gets in touch with me... What do you think- is he interested or was I just a convenient make-out partner?
Then, once we got back to where everyone was sleeping, we hung out a bit longer, he walked me to my car and we made out a second time. I texted him the next day and he responded, but didn't keep the conversation going. And since then- nothing, he hasn't said a word to me at all. I'm so confused- we've been flirting for literally months and he's not the smooth player type so it's not likely he's playing me (he didn't push me to stay or go further at all, quite the opposite actually). And he was fairly sober (4 beers) during our encounter so it wasn't just him being drunk.
But why isn't he talking to me at all? I'm not sure if I should text him or give him some time and see if he gets in touch with me... What do you think- is he interested or was I just a convenient make-out partner?
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