If you always seem to have sex when you hang out, if he can't hang out with you without trying to put the moves on you, or if he doesn't want to hang out with you if there's not going to be sex involved, it's just sex. Honestly after five months if you've only hung out once without having sex, it's very likely just sex and he's just telling you the things you want to hear to keep you putting out.
If you're looking for relationships and not flings and you want to avoid this kind of sloppy situation in the future, don't sleep with a guy until you're in a relationship with him.1 0 0 0Like I said, I didn't get into this wanting a relationship, I wanted something casual too. It turned to feelings after a while, but hey, I guess that's a woman's downfall.
The only way you'd know, is to quit having sex with him and tell him you only want to continue seeing him if he's interested in a relationship.
0 0 0 0Agree with second part, not sure how quitting sex is going to make him want a relationship. It would seem to me it would do the obvious. Like, oh, we were just having sex all the time, but now about instead we have commitment and NO sex? Yeah, that's tempting ..
I didn't mean quit to get him to want a relationship. I meant she'll know if that's all he's after, if he doesn't want to be around her anymore. The best way to have gone about it would have been to not sleep with him UNTIL she knew he wanted a commitment. Obviously too late for that now, though.
lol I understand, I figured he was just kind of telling me what he think's I want to here. Truthfully, I didn't get into it with him wanting a relationship. I just wanted something casual, then I guess we both caught feelings, or, at least I did. It is a little to late for that unfortunately. With him, he's kind of unpredictable, and it's hard to tell what he's thinking.
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