My coworker teases me all the time. A typical day at work includes us play arguing about stupid stuff (to the point where our other coworkers will usually say something about it, or else cringe or roll their eyes). We like to hurl insults at each other a lot, but we both never really mean them. We shove past each other whenever we cross paths (he likes to push me into the table when he walks by me). He's always dumping ice down the back of my shirt. We joke around a lot and have been known to wrestle over things at times. Let's just say there's a lot of physical and verbal teasing going on here. But is he flirting with me? Or is he just having fun?
I ask because a few weeks ago we were drinking at a bar with a bunch of other people from work, and he took a picture of my cleavage and showed it to me, joking about how he was going to post it online. I knew he was joking and wouldn't do it (and he didn't), but ever since then there's been more physical teasing and less verbal teasing. Like he pushes me around a lot more, and he's started dumping ice down the front of my shirt too and poking me in the side and the lower back. It's just playful, but I wonder sometimes is there flirting behind it? He's really hard to read.
I ask because a few weeks ago we were drinking at a bar with a bunch of other people from work, and he took a picture of my cleavage and showed it to me, joking about how he was going to post it online. I knew he was joking and wouldn't do it (and he didn't), but ever since then there's been more physical teasing and less verbal teasing. Like he pushes me around a lot more, and he's started dumping ice down the front of my shirt too and poking me in the side and the lower back. It's just playful, but I wonder sometimes is there flirting behind it? He's really hard to read.
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