I think you're underestimating players - aka womanizers. These guys -do not care- about being tied down. It's just what he's willing to put up with while around you to sleep with -you-. Time and time again I see girls trying to change these types and every single time I see it go under, or she's so blinded by this hope that she doesn't even notice him sleeping around. Do not underestimate these guys. They are masters of deception.
All I can say is: don't bet on it, especially if the guy isn't into his 30s yet. Players simply don't settle down when they're young, not for long, at least.
I think the only thing that might make a player look twice would be to NOT fall for his manipulation. Always call him out on the sh*t he says, DON't put out whatever you do, don't put out, keep reminding him that you're strong-willed, not down for his foolishness, and command respect. If he changes then great, if not, well, you've successfully avoided a player.
It wouldn't be for long so why bother. It's an ego thing for them so once their ego starts needing some attention they will burn you.
I agree. She's definitely got to be pretty original and has something that no other girl he's been with has.
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Tell me how that goes...You can't force a young stud-player (or any other horny guy for that matter) to settle down and be with you. He has to be ready to settle down when he's done attempting to sleep or slept with all the girls he can. Eventually, every guy will settle down but you can't really put a timeline on it. If you try to force him, chances are...he'll run for the hills.
1) A guy is either promiscuous by nature or
2) he becomes so due to women chasing him off with nagging,mind games, and other drama centric sh*t.
It's your job to distinguish which he is. Simple answer, avoid them. Haha.. player 'first relationship' yeah ok.
The only way to do that, is to have her be pregnant and to hope that he's nice enough to stay with her. That's how it worked with my dad and my mom. My dad was a player..found out my mom was prego and was nice enough to stay around. I was an "accident"
Its kinda what Mr.Oracle said, don't hold your breath on it, coming from a guy who was raised around players, There is literally nothing a girl could do to tie a player down unless you get pregnant.
It amuses me when women think they can MAKE a man commit. Either he is or he's not, end of story
She must be special for him to commit to her, but how can you be so sure he will stop sleeping with other girls?
Unlikely, but I know you are going to try anyway, so tell us how it all worked out.
Why do you want to? just go for a nice guy.
Why is Prof Don commenting on all your answers?
Duh puss.y.
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