Help I'm a Leo, my boyfriend a Capricorn.Communication problem.Advise?

[Fransou19]

I kind of believe in astrological sign a bit. For example Scorpio are mostly passionate and I love that but will run away from them because they really possessive and don’t show their emotions that much.

I'm a Leo and my boyfriend is a Capricorn we having a lot of communication problem seriously with him. Can any couple like me Leo (women)-Capricorn (man) give advises. I do love boyfriend.

They direct with words, rough, and cold emotions. Capricorn love to work and he works 3 jobs/ he would like to have mainly boys and Capricorn think mostly the world should be lead by men. He loves money and give it away too much to his friends ?.He sticks with his dream and he believes in them. He likes to talk about himself and never listen to me. He is really self-confident and like to take risk .He loves sex too much I mean sex no romance (no flowers, no nice words , no nice touch, no pretty surprise and this is a problem for me).

I knew a few Capricorn before but friends and just people passing by but I was a bit worried when I realized he was Capricorn. And mostly Capricorn is attracted by me. Not me by them. I fell in love. Just now we have communication problem. HELP...

[lost-angel]

Ok LEO, listen...

Capricorns are very hard workers. When they have a goal, the will do what they can to achieve it. MEANING... capricorns LOVE challenges. They get bored easily. They love strong, but they don't like to get smothered or have to talk about feelings all the time. They like independence. On both sides. It is what gets them going. You said he feels like men should rule the world... well, I think every man thinks that way, regardless of their zodiac. But Capricorns do tend to lead. They like to be in control, and they usually know how to. But capricorns are loyal. They look, and wander, but they are pretty loyal. Most, atleast. But remember, they like challenge. The more unavailable you are, the more they want you. They get bored pretty easy.

Aside from zodiacs though... if your boyfriend is all about sex, all about himself, and never does anything sweet for you.. or treats you with any respect, then I don't think he really loves you.

At this point, he doesn't realize what he has. He is taking your love for granted. And my advice would be to let go. But if you can't because you "really love him", then... prepare to get hurt in the end. These type of guys (whether capricorn, or acorn) care about no one but themselves. And it takes losing the "one", for them to realize what they really had.

Trust me, I've been there...

[Fransou19]

Best answer is yours. And thanks to all of you for your comments.

[lost-angel]

Hey thanks girl :)

You know you could click on the best answer box for my answer :)

Just a thought (^ - ^)

[Siobhan516]

So true smhh

[Anonymous]

Capricorns are all about getting things done, and that explains everything about sex and all, and even the lack of communication. They do only what they think needs to be done. So, he's not communicating because he knows what he wants/feels and probably doesn't think it's necessary to verbalize.

Of course, if you're a Leo, you don't like when he talks about himself and ignores your half of the conversation. He's only thinking of what he's saying.

Maybe you should initiate a conversation about yourself. And it's likely that he won't listen to that without saying something about himself.

Maybe if you ask him about important things, rather than counting on the possibility of him telling you voluntarily, you'll understand him & his intentions better. He may get annoyed with constant questions, though.

[NirvanaChic]

I am also a Leo who use to date a capricorn just like yours. I think Leo wormen are very intrigued with the capricorns. I don't know why but I think there is a strong connection between both...even though the horoscope things always say how a capricorn and a leo are never compatible.

But you have to try very hard with capricorns...meaning you have to do all the work, becasue they don't really have a romantic nature. but in the end they notice and will be very grateful and satisfied. oh and us leos are very romantic so you should be very good at it

[carncars]

I read somewhere the astrology signs has chanced. That would mean you are cancer and he is sagittatius. Perhaps that helps your problem with communication. Since Sagittarius are quite. Llike speaking is silver but keep your silence is gold. People say astrology is not true because they know there has been a chance somehow. :)

[jacquesvol]

My answer is simple and straightforward: stop reading horoscopes and talk to each other. If there's a problem, your astrological signs don't have anything to do with it. Talk with each other about the REAL problems between you instead of accusing the stars.

[philosophersdilemma]

Communication will be a problem regardless of what star signs you are. Instead of focusing on all the things that are wrong with the way you two express yourselves, try to focus on how to meet his needs, and have him meet yours in terms of what needs to be communicated. Instead of looking at astrology for the answers, ask him how he wants and tell him what you want. That's the only way you'll resolve any problems, star-born or whatnot.

I'm a scorpio, and my sister's a libra... We're pretty opposite, but she's my best friend. The stars give you as much meaning as you let them.

[that-one-girl]

You mean... you're a woman, and he's a man?

All relationships have communication breakdown at some point. You just have to work it out.

It's just how men and women are - we're emotional, men are thinkers. They take a logical (well, they THINK it's logical) approach to every situation. It just depends on how emotional you are, and how closed up he is.

Communication can be a problem for anyone, no matter what sign you are!

[LiL_AnGel]

i know a little about capricorns cause one of my ex`s had that sign but am piscis well what I can tell you they are not good at comunicating themselves at all I guess they think there see thru which there not they only think of there selfs and money is there life they can't live without it but don't get me wrong they do got feelings they are just not good at showing them..i think you should talk too him and tell him how you feel maybe yall can try to work things out ok hope the best.

[aceofdiamond]

theres nothing wrong! your placing too much of everything into those signs! the signs mean nothing! every couple goes through a rough time and all that but its ok! don't get all worked up about it, just know that you love him. the signs mean nothing, they can unsettle you. love him and sit down and talk. talking always help. just get all the problems out on the table and work through it.

[ivarei]

why are you letting astrology control you? you run away from scorpios because they're possessive...i'm a scorpio, and while I am passionate, I don't get jealous in relationships or possessive. my grandfather was a scorpio, my grandmother wasn't, but she was WAY more possessive than he ever was. do you honestly think that every person who's birthday falls within a certain range of time IS GOING to be a certain way because of it? that's not how people work.

[SemiShy]

I'm a Capricorn and I couldn't be more different. Trust me, a zodiac is a broad description of vague personality types. The reason you may think your like your zodiac is because zodiacs are made to make people believe, its just another scheme.

[atkcody08]

I'm a leo and my girlfriend is a capricorn (4 years)... if you want any info or have any questions... message me

[mikethebear]

zodiac is a load of crap. your just not made for each other.

personally I find it as believable as the god delusion.

[cool_babe9]

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[kiakai16]

forget all that capricorn and leo stuff it has nothing 2 do with your relationship...just talk 2 him

[muliebrity]

doesn't sound like a communication problem.