any girl who says hugs and kisses or xoxo's, most likely says it to everyone. that girl is pretty flirty or just outgoing and such, you can tell just from that.
most girls would just say good night, or something along those lines.
wanna hear a secret?
If a girl is not interested, she will just say bye...
If she says goodnight, there is more of a chance she is interested..
and if she says more than goodnight.. such as..;
You: Oh, I gotta go...
Her: Oh ok.. Goodnight..
You: Good Night.
Her: Sweet Dreams..
You: Thanks.
Her: Night...
Or anything like that, she is probably interested... first off, she says things that are nice, like sweet dreams.. second... if she says more than one goodbye phrase, it implies that she doesn't want you to leave.
just letting you know.
hope I helped (:
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even if I was interested in a guy I wouldn't put xo0ox, even if he KNEW I was interested because we hooked up and went on dates I still wouldn't put xo0o0x, some girls do that because that's the way they talk, I know with me I like to put lots of letters at the end of a word, so il say good nighttttttt, most guys would prob take it that I'm interested in them and being nice, when really I have no interest lol...if she's doing it this early on then I'm guessing she talks like that to all the guys, I know girls who put that to me at the end in a fun way, and that's how they end IM's with guys as well, don't read into it, IF SHE PUTS A WINK READ INTO IT lol, I will ONLY put winks with guys I like, so keep a look out for winks "xo0ox goodnight ;-)"
i would say it really all depends on the type of person you are. there are some really bubbly girls that do X's and O's all the time. If the girl is bubbly then I'd say go for it. no need to hold back part of you you are in fear for what the guy might think. . it's somewhat risky putting yourself out there even with a tiny little conversation ender like that because you'll never know how the other person might react. personally I'd just say goodnight. but that's just how I am.
I'm not a girl but let me tell you something I noticed... the more mature the woman is, the less she goes with xoxo's. It's usually more on the lines of "Goodnight" or "I'll see you."
i wouldn't say xoxo
especially if its you first time saying hugs and kisses.
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I normally put 'see you later' or 'bye!'
I said 'g'night' to someone before. I don't really believe in xoxo crap. Mostly because everybody does that and it gets a little tedious. Plus, I bet that half the people that put that wouldn't even kiss or hug the person that they're speaking to, so what's the point?!Well it depends on how long I've been chatting with him. But I would have to at least chat and get to know him for about 2 or 3 weeks or so to end up our conversation with x's and o's. Other than that I would end it with a goodbye or goodnight or somethin like that. Good Question Though.
I personally don't do that, but I know some girls do it just because that's their "signature" kinda thing. Many times in convos girls also put <3 hearts, but it doesn't necessarily mean anything. All I can tell you is that it depends on the girl. For me, sometimes I use those hearts (as in goodnight<3) for people I like and sometimes I won't. sometimes they mean something. sometimes they don't.
Interesting reading the other answers, personally, I only end txts with xox and I'll do that with anybody and everybody and if I'm chatting on IM then I'll end with xxxx (I usually just do a random amount of x's). I don't know why I do that online but xox throught txt. But anyway, I've ended it with xxxxx even if it's the first time I've ever spoke to a guy online and I've never met him in real life. To me it doesn't mean anything, it's just what I do.
if I was interested in a guy and I was chatting with him... I would end the convo by saying goodnight... because I wouldn't want to sound too cheesey... esp. if I didn't know a guy too well... I don't want to scare him off...
i would definitely say good night if it's just getting to know a guy. I mean saying hugs and kisses is way too intimate during the first few dates or likewise the first few texts/IMs.
I definitely put xs... But it doesn't matter who I'm talking to, in all honesty... I always end a conversation with "Bye! xx".
Unless it's my mum/dad/brother... Then it's just "Bye." lolabsolutely no xxoo crap. that's odd if you don't know them and to me, looks desperate. although I guess that's just my personality ;) I'd just say good night and talk to you soon.
XOXO might be a wee bit creepy. Just go for good night or sleep tight. It's friendlier. Save XOXO til your VERY good friends or more.
just say good night xx don't go to far on a fist date
"good night and sleep tight"
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