Why would a guy suddenly ignore you if he likes you?

[Anonymous]

Why would a guy suddenly ignore you if he likes you?

Or does this mean he doesn't like you?

[kholland65]

I'm going to literally copy and past my answer from another question that I just posted to which was more or less the same question...

Well its 2 things.

1. Guys don't require constant communication. Many times a girl thinks a guy is ignoring her when it his mind he's not, because going a day without talking is a big deal to a girl, to a guy its not.

2. Guys who are good with girls, employ this technique. It's hard to do since we naturally DON'T want to ignore the person we really like. Guys who good "game" know that this idea of planting the seed then ignoring makes a girl go crazy for you, like it is now. You don't realize it but this behavior makes you almost want him more. It has to do with the fact that by him ignoring you, if places his at a perceived higher status. You all of a sudden wonder why he isn't interested in you and subconsciously you reason that its because he must be of higher status that you. This in turn makes you want to win him over even more because women are innately born with the desire to mate with the highest status men, aka the alpha males.

[Anonymous]

I'm dealing with the same deal! He even went as far to say he doesn't have feelings for me and only sees me as a friend to that whole next wk. Flirt with me and sit next to me during lunch, wtf! is right! I'm saying men put forth effort but then get scared they won't have their freedom so they pull away. I also think they're scared. I try so hard to pull away and give him space, it may last for a few days. But I don't like games and I'm a open book. but perhaps this isn't working with the guy I like either, grrrr!

[wazasx]

this happened to me too and I was like wtf didn't you like me like a day ago.

[Asker]

lol so what happened then?