He just hates me for no reason and why is that?

[Anonymous]

ok what does it mean when a guy just hates you ? :|

i never in my life talked to him and if I did we will cuss at each other, but that was only one time though .

he just hates me for no reason and why is that ?

why do you men hate on girls for no reason ?

he looks at me a lot and goes to the places I go at times !

what the HAY .

what does this define .

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WTHAY !

it happened again lol ,

he was watching me for a long time & rolled his eyes

oooo man what this dudes problem, does he like me and is acting really immature ?

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ahhhh it happened again, he looks at me from far but when I walk pass him at times he looks straight up what does that mean ?

and everywhere I go I see him there, every corner I go HES THERE .

ok I'm confused :S HELP ?

[Gorce]

I don't believe anyone can hate you for absolutly no reason. Something happened and I have my thoughts on what happened.

He likes you and doesn't want to. Maybe he feels he doesn't have a chance with you and that is what is really bothering him. So, since he believes he can never have you in a goo way, He will settle for something just as passionate as making you despise him. Suddenly he has your attention and he satisfies his ego. He wants to be able to "reject you first" even though nothing has happened (he never even tried to talk to you).

Sounds dumb and it is. It's called being immature. This fellow really liked you at some point and the bottom line is he gave up before he started but still wants your attention...even in a negative way.

[Vyxzuw]

That's assuming a lot.

Maybe one of his friends liked her, but she turned him down?

And he wonders why she would turn down his friend that is such a nice guy?

Not that your scenario isn't possible, but there are other things that could explain it.

[Gorce]

Its just one angle I wanted to put out. Not assuming anything, just my thoughts because I have seen it happen a few times.

[maysajous]

I feel like I'm in this situation right now and everything you said made sense. Thanks

[Giralashowdown134]

Mhm so something like this also happened to me..
We were in a situation ship and he "rejected" me so he said he doesn't want to be in a relationship (with very good reasons) and I understood that. After some time it became hard for me and I just late it go. In Sommer holiday I wrote him. He was very dry and said he doesn't want anything. I understood that totally so I left him Space. But he is very jealous if I talk to some other dudes and is very hatful towards me. I catch him often smiling at me. I really don't know what to do. I also like him but I don't want to be in that situation ship again where this rejecting game keeps playing

[Vyxzuw]

I doesn't hate you for no reason. (If he does hate you.)

He hates you for a reason that you don't know. Whether it be a valid reason or not, who knows...

[Vyxzuw]

I don't think he likes you. He may have at one time, like Gorce said, or it may be for another reason.

I'd say that he had expectation of a person that you were supposed to be, but then he found out you were not the person he thought you were.

Question though:

"i never in my life talked to him and if I did we will cuss at each other, but that was only one time though"

What do you mean by "only one time though"? Does that mean at some point you cussed at him?

[Asker]

Yeh I bumped into me and was rude about ..

then later on he juss stares me down and follows me

[Asker]

*ye he bumped into me and was rude about it *

[Vyxzuw]

Hmmm. Well I'd say it's definite that he doesn't like you.

Why would be interesting to know...

But more importantly is why is he nursing a grudge?

Since you don't remember doing anything (and assuming nothing happened with one of his friends and you) then it's based on you not meeting his expectations of you.

Course that's his fault for creating expectations of someone he doesn't know.

He really should just let whatever it is go and move on with his life...

[Asker]

AHH its happening again he looks at me and goes where I goes .. every corner I go I see him there somehow and he looks at me from far what does this mean !

[Lilalu]

This guy I know, we used to be friends but after the summer he just starting hating me and calling me fat and ugly and it gets annoying especially when he sits next to me. I miss our friendship but it looks like I'm stopping my friends from being friends with him just because they're my friends (confusing I know) honestly the best thing to do is just ask him. If you don't it will just carry on. If he doesn't have a reason then he's not worth your time.