This guy says I'm a serious and guarded person?

Im not dating him at all, but I do work with him. I don't know why he decided to tell me this but now I would like some advice if you please on what exactly he means and how can I become unguarded? I do laugh a lot and love to have fun but nonetheless he's says I'm serious too? thanks

It seems some answers say that he is after me, but I really don't see the correlation between wanting me and just telling me I was a guarded person. can anyone elaborate?


Most Helpful Guy

  • LOL! Just tell him 'If I'm worth having as a friend you will find a way to make me drop my guard and loosen up."


What Guys Said 5

  • loosen up then.

  • So you should be to a man you work with so just say, yes, that's correct and go about whatever it is you do and keep it work like at the work place. If he can't be like a worker then you can ask him to transfer to another place or ask the supervisor to say something to him so you don't lose your job over the guy.

  • Men typically mean what they you should just take it as face value. He's pointing out something he sees in you...if he likes you, you'll know, trust me!

  • it is his way of saying lets start to flirt I would say .why not ask him what he ment by that remark. get it from the hourse"s mouth.

    • ha ha he's been flirting with me for quite awhile, so can't ask him that questioin. but thank you!

What Girls Said 2

  • It just means you are shy and quiet

  • He wants to get into your pants

    You aren't showing any signs so he's trying to put this in your head