i texted a guy . but he did not reply me back. so got angry and told him. you should have replied something. I felt he liked me. so I even told him... I am sorry if I have hurt your feelings in any manner.
after some hours he reply saying : I have nothing to say to you.
he did flirt with me non verbal last year. after some days I was his friend. but hardly spoke to each other, this year he finally says hi to me. and next day turns up in my class wanting to talk to me. but I laughed and ignored him.
but even then I did spoke to him. after all he did I knew he had feelings for me.
can you please help me figure out the guy. why is he behaving like this . as if nothing happened between both us.
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In my opinion (I have to know the guy personally of course to be 100% sure), you've already blown your chance by coming off as a "possessive girlfriend"
heck, even the fact you apologized comes of as a warning if he's looking for a normal relationship: it means you have unexpected mood swings and regret your actions later on (which is caused by insecurity and doubt. If you knew what you were doing you'd never regret it).
So much drama, mood swings and possessive behaviour so early in a potential relationship is a bad sign to even start the relationship.
I am the kind of person that really analyzes this stuff but allot of "natural" just pick up on this naturally and feel "a vibe" which makes them avoid you pretty unconscious (they don't even give it half the thought I do, but come with the same conclusion, simply because they have a better natural feel to it, while people like me have to analyze and compare facts).
I think that's what happened to him.
To give a big exaggeration.
What would you think if a cool, handsome guy walked up to you and started flirting really smooth everything goes well and then you say something wrong about his family and he flips and starts making death threats towards you and the security in the club has to intervene and one minute later he's crying like a baby begging you to take him back (whilst you've just met him 3 minutes ago...just go along with my example haha) and you ignore him and 20 seconds later he's making out with a girl in front of you to make you jealous and a minute later is telling all his friends what kind of a slut you a are.
This all happened in less then 5 minutes...even though his first impression was good...would you still consider dating him after seeing so much faces and weird stuff in such a short time (most of these things happen in a relationship in a course of like 5 years lol).
Dating a person like that would mean you'd have to deal with that sh*t everyday.
You'd probably avoid them as well :D
So now you know what I mean lol.