I think "good girl" types are intimidating. I should know, because I'm one lol.
The answers I've gotten that seemed most honest were, "when I'm with you, it makes me look at myself and see all my faults." or "you deserve a better guy than me." I imagine some falsely think that good girl = boring/cold fish/judgmental as well.
But keep in mind that people can CHANGE. sometimes a guy with a little bad boy in him can encourage a good girl type to loosen up and try a few new things (within boundaries) and she can help get him back on the straight and narrow lol.
Don't take it too far though and get into a relationship with someone who you have nothing in common with though...
Above all, be true to yourself. Don't compromise for the sake of conformity or the sake of a man. The essence of who you are is one of the only things you have in life that you can depend on--don't throw it away.
Don't listen to that crazy poster about the beer drinking and what not. Although it is true that many guys your age are into sex and beer only, there are also MANY great guys out there who prefer "good girls." Those guys you described don't take the time to know the girls and the girls they get with are easy and takes less effort. Have you overlooked the so-called "nice guys"?
Guys want to have fun. They want to have wild sex, drink beers, and burn things. They don't want to play Monopoly and attend your church parties. A lot of men find it really weird when they're staring at a crucifix hanging over your head whilst plowing you.
In all fairness, this arguments goes both ways. There are people of both genders who select dating partners that are all wrong for them, but that's hopefully where they learn from it and chalk it up to experience. Some people out there feel that stereotypically "nice" or "good" people are boring, goody two-shoes, etc. - but that's not necessarily true at all. As another poster indicated, there are many more character traits that define who people really are; to just split them up into categories of "good" and "bad" is too simplistic.
The world isn't always seen in black-and-white, there are plenty of grey areas, and that extends to people too. Someone who may appear pure on the outside can be anything but in reality, and vice-versa.
idk what was wrong with frozen's answer... I really thought it just about summed it up.
i would rather be with a "good girl" than a "bad girl" if you put it that way. it reminds me of when I was about 7 and talking about who was good and who was bad.. you are definately generalizing when you talk about this. it's way too hard to classify good from bad because there are so many attirubtes that we'd be leaving out. anyways, just hang in there and be yourself because I am sure some guy will want to be with a "good girl" like you.
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Don't generalize. Not all guys are like that. Hell, most guys aren't like that.
Hell, I'm not even sure I've ever heard of circumstances where something like this has happened.
Most guys that "good girls" would be interested in, are themselves interested in "good girls".
But, again, don't generalize. If you could possibly explain your specific situation, I could possibly help, but there's nothing for anybody to say to a huge generalization like this.
You have to define "good girl". I know when I hear someone say "good guy" they mean someone who isn't just using the girl for sex.
Where are these so called "good girls" ?
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