hmm, since I already have someone I think I would just be friends with the guy who likes me, chat with him and such, but never get too close, I don't wanna end up complicating my love life lol
I honestly do like the attention, for along time I always thought I was unwanted becauase I was weird or ugly, but the whole time I was just being antisocial and pessimistic, I thought I was comfortable being the quiet ghost in class and classmates in gradechool called me "the white lady" (local ghost myth) because when I looked at them while they stare at me I gave them chills down their spine (but that was so long ago), eventually I grew older and in high school after a few.. mishaps.., I suddenly become one of the popular ones, it was pretty good and I really enjoyed it even when I thought I wouldnt, now I'm just content with being with my boyfriend x3
attention for both boys and girls is a nice experience, like when people want to be your friend, but often times people who get a lot of attention become attention whores and such, it may be fun but you should always maintain self control so you don't get any twisted fantasies about it :P
of course I want to be wanted by someone I like. I don't want the feeling of it I want to actually _be_ wanted. but there's no reason to want to be wanted by someone I'm not attracted to. opposite really. I just feel bad I don't feel the same and seeing him will make me feel guilty. or just sorry. I definitely would never intentionally give mixed messages to anyone let alone someone I don't want to like me..bc I hate being misunderstood as it is..but I can't say that means id never be perceived as giving mixd messages. anyways if a didn't like a gut and he wanted me, then did not. id be happy for hi. I've been in that situation ad I told the guy I'm very glad . it made me feel a lot better to know he wasn't hoping I was going to like him., and he could find someone who really wants him. I hate not wanting people who want me I feel so shallow. but none the less id never force it,
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