Is it true that fraternity guys tend to be players?

[Purplelove010]

I notice they tend to have this big ego about themselves and they feel like they can have any girl they want.

I thought being a part of a fraternity meant that you wanted to set a good example for people & inspires others.

So why are they like that?

Updates

+1 y

Bonus question: Do you think that fraternity guys getting all the attention from girls influence them to sleep around?

[TasteofGrace]

I'm going to be very blunt: Fraternity guys tend to be very easily influenced sheep. Many of them are insecure and they derive confidence based on how much approval and acceptance they're getting from others. I know this because I've dated a few of them. It's all about image and maintaining an image. I don't believe that most fraternities s are truly about brotherhood because how can you have a brotherhood with some a**holes who haze you, humiliate you, and treat you like an animal so you can be apart of their little club? Fraternities have become all about whoring around, getting drunk, and keeping alive "high school popularity" type atmosphere. The whole idea of a fraternity is practically identical to the whole idea of high school popularity. It is very rare to find a guy who can be apart of a fraternity and maintain his own individual, independent identity who doesn't have some deep rooted desire to be accepted by a bunch of people who individually may not even give him all that great of a connection. Sleeping around is just an extension of that. For some reason, guys think that going out, being a whore, dipping your penis inside of a bunch of vaginas makes you cool when really it just makes you nasty, reckless, and stupid.

[Purplelove010]

There was a fraternity I was interested in & had a conversation with. He asked me for my number & texted me his number. But I never heard from him again. I waited a whole week & he never texted me. I thought he would text me first since he asked me for my number, but he didn't. So after waiting a whole week I decided to text him first, but he never texted me back.

[peace-love-couture]

My boyfriend is an SAE and quite a few of the guys in his fraternity are in long term relationships

I think depending on the reputation of the fraternity and the image they present, it can be true. Some frat guys at my school pull girls like no other and girls basically throw themselves at them.

It can or cannot be true. Just depends.

[martyfellow]

Mostly they are using Don Trump as their role model. Often they are too drunk to really be players, because they are incoherent and can't deliver a 'line.'

They'd like to THINK they are players, but actually, they're just rapists, for the most part.

[Purplelove010]

I hear cases of women getting raped by fraternity men, but I don't think all of them do that. Some have strong beliefs in treating women with the upmost respect. If they are considering raping a girl then, they are going against what fraternity is all about. Fraternities & sororities are suppose set good examples for people not torture the innocence.

[martyfellow]

Tre reality is getting boozed up to the point you don't even remember what you did..

[amandaaapandaaa]

It could very well just be the people you know. I've met plenty of frat boys that were the nicest and most genuine people I've ever talked to.

[sexyasianboi26]

+1 one of my friends is a frat boy, this guy is the type that would drive 3am in the morning to pick up my drunk *ss lol

[Purplelove010]

Well yes they are nice. Some will even stop by and say hello & start a conversation with you as if they already know you. So yes they are easy to talk to.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it seems so. But it's a stereotype.