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Why does my girlfriend always breaks up and comes back?

I ran into my exgirlfriend and she invited me to hang out with her so I did. She was very affectionate toward me but kept telling me she has a... Show More

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  • Hi I have to tell you for experience that I was in a relasionship like this before and it's hard I know but sometime it's better to let her go because if she already broke up with you twice and got back with you what makes you think she's not going to keep doing it and when she keeps doing this your going to get tierd of it and not want to do anything with her I know she is the beautiful girl you ever seen in your life but she's still going to be hurting you and right now she just wants you when she needs a back up as a boyfriend tell her next time it's final if she brakes up with you she can't come back because all she is doing is hurting you and not caring or seeing what kind of love you have for her hope this helps .

    • thank you

What Girls Said 5

  • Probably wants you as a warranty. For example if she broke up or got dumped she knows she can come back to you.

    What you need to do is go out have some fun loosen up. Hang out with your guy friends and move on from her.

    Get someone who cherishes you the way you did to her. What you feel for her is unrequited because she is only using you and not reciprocating your feelings.

    Get someone who makes you happy after all you're still young, handsome and be happy. Show her what she gave up on

  • She is not beautiful! She may look good on the outside but beauty is throughout. She sounds like she has ego issues (DAMAGED GOODS) and a split personality. Run run and never look back! There are millions of pretty/attractive girls. There are also some real beauties out there you can do better!

  • I would suggest forgetting about her, it sounds like she has no respect for you and is just playing games. There are no steps to getting her back, she is just out to hurt you more, a girl like her only cares about herself. Best if you consider the relationship a learning experience and find a girl who will love and respect you and make you happy, it may take years but there's someone for everyone :)

  • agree with 1diamond.

    you are letting her play you...get some balls and tell her off...you are better than that.

    she has a bf...why bother..she is seeking attention from you and being disrespectful to you.

What Guys Said 9

  • You need to close that chapter in your life man. The only reason she keeps texting and calling is because she knos that you'll respond. She thinks she has you under her finger. It may be difficult but she is toxic. Once you start ignoring her and improving your life you'll be good. Go meet other girls. There are enough out there to not have to worry over this one.

  • She just wants attention from you. Don't give it to her. Don't reply to her. Give her the cold shoulder.

    Shes texting you and telling you about her new boyfriend, because he's not that great. That's why she's lieing and making stuff up to make him seem better then you. For if he actually was, she wouldn't need to tell you.

    This girl may mean the world to you. But you have to look at it now as her loss. For your the catch. Not her.

    Next time you bump into her, or she texts you or w.e. Don't respond. That will kill her. No matter how much she tries to contact you. You cannot respond, till she says she's sorry. Or until she msgs you saying that she's single and sorry. This won't happen over night.

    Just stay away from her. She's playing with your emotions.

  • dont get her back... its easier

  • The most beautiful girl, in my eyes, broke up with me last month. We are done, there is no coming back. I feel your pain... Someone else will treat you better and make you happy, it will take time. Don't be the "nice" guy, a pure nice guy will never work with 90% women. You have to be a little bad too.

  • Sorry man, but you need to tell this girl to take a flying leap! Assuming you did nothing to truly piss her off? I would straight up ask her ONCE what her deal is and if she still keeps on with all that bs just tell her you have no reason to be friends with someone who constantly tells you how much they don't like you.

  • She's crazy. Forget about her for a couple years. She's obviously not over you if she's continuing to text you. Also try to hang out with her, just no contact rule for a year or two. I know it's a long time but it's the only way to really let all feelings wash away. If it's meant to be and you guys meet up 2 years later and hit it off then go for it. Meanwhile focus on your self and forget about all the none sense she brings into your life.

  • You need to let her go man. Her having a new boyfriend and bragging to you about it is a clear sign she only intends to hurt you. Whatever memories you have of good times with her, forget about them. If she really loved you, she wouldn't be making you suffer like this. Have some dignity man, forget about her, don't contact her at all, don't let her contact you, and carry on with your life. There are so many fish on the sea and you're still in love with a piranha.

  • Good God, stop putting this girl on a pedestal! Block her #, delete her off FB and stop contacting her. She's at least a crazy bitch, and at most a crazy bitch who would cheat on her boyfriend.

    You ain't getting her back. You're only prolonging your misery.

  • She's quite insecure of herself. She must need constant attention and you're not giving it, that's why she "breaks up" with you to get that feeling.

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