Well last night I was looking on his phone in his Internet history to find a website he had told me about. I saw a bunch if cute and silly things he looked up, I laughed no biggie, then I saw about three weeks ago nearly a month he looked up "how to tell if your girlfriend is a moocher" and a few variations on that question. And that hurt. While I do stay over at his house often that's because otherwise I live with my family (my grandmother is sick and she likes to have me there and I help take care if her) I have a job, I don't ask him for money. I give his gifts often. He pays for food when we are out usually, but he prefers that, I pay for groceries sometimes or I'll bring food over to his house to cook, I usually cook his dinners and prepare his lunches. I used to always over to split the bills until I realized it upset him, and I said he can pay when we are out and I'll pay when I cook. So it hurt to see that he thinks I'm being a mooch. It's only recent that he's really bought me gifts. Where as I've siesta got him gifts. My job isn't great but since we said I love you I've been liking into getting my masters and making more money to help out the future "us"
I don't see a problem in my actions, can anyone help?
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