Thin VS. Curves? Real men like curves, not bones?

[pris09]

Please, before you answer with dumb shit like "real men like curves" please be aware that having curves are bodies like
Jennifer Lopez
Ciara
Shakira
Kim Kardashian
The word "curves" has two meanings. Some people are using it to mean hourglass and some people are using it to mean "fat".
Usually referring to the breasts and the hips. Often the larger the ratio between your waist and hips, the curvier you are considered.

ALL WOMEN ARE REAL WOMEN. A woman is a woman, whether biologically by birth or otherwise. A fat woman is a real woman. A thin woman is a real woman. A woman with curves is real, as are women without. Athletic women are real women. Some people don't realize that for a lot of people it's literally impossible to get curves.

Thin bodies are:
Selena Gomez
Nicole Scherzinger
Miley Cyrus

I don't have anything against heavier girls, I actually have a lot of big friends but I don't need people saying that "I'm not a real women" because I'm thin. I think its sick that people think like that.

But apparently, when a heavier girl torments me and bullies me about being too skinny, it's okay. But god forbid, if I say something about a heavier girl, its almost like its racist and oh my god its so wrong and horrible and I'm going to hell etc.

I'm naturally thin which sucks but I don't have a flat butt and I'm almost a dcup but it was stuff like this that killed my self esteem and made me hate myself. We're all fucking beautiful, whatever weight!
Real men love women just the way they are whether thin, curvy, or fat. I don't know why people have to use that phrase and put down skinny girls I find that totally immature. Different guys have different tastes on different women.
In the end it's all about preference.

Girls always criticize other bodies, don't be mad cause not everyone looks like you.

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[xHoneyxBeex]

I completely agree. Different men find different body types beautiful and that's okay. It's annoying when people say "real women have curves." Last time I checked, I'm a real woman...and I'm naturally skinny. I couldn't gain weight if I wanted to. I actually struggle to even maintain my weight.

It's very insulting when people criticize thin women by inferring that they aren't "real" and using phrases such as "only dogs like bones." It is wrong to bash anyone for their body type, whether big or small, no one deserves to be made fun of for the way their body looks.

I would never even think of ridiculing someone who is overweight or simply not built like me. Therefore, I like to be equally respected and not have people trying to put me down just because I have a small body frame and I'm not "curvy."

[pris09]

could't agree more. i have never bullied someone or teased them for being fat.
me too, mainting weight is so difficult.

[TheNewClassic]

you're so right. It is hurtful for a skinny chick (like myself) to hear people say eww she's so skinny, id rather want a girl with meat blah blahhh blahhhhh

Or this new gym hype, god i hate it so much; strong is the new skinny. So fucking annoying.

Women come in different shapes and sizes and are all beautiful and attractive in their own way.

[pris09]

hell yeahhhh

[biracialQT]

I agree with what you're saying but I wouldn't consider you thin of you say you dont have a flat butt and you have a D cup.

[pris09]

i do have that, but i have really skinny legs and arms

[biracialQT]

Ahh I see:)

[AustinMan]

Your curves sound beautiful. The good news is that with right diet and specific targeted exercises, you can get yourself a bubble butt or there abouts. None of that grows boobs. Wear good bras, take pride in your rack and don't let anyone put you down. As for the fat girl nazis, it's because they are the outcasts already and you very much are not. I am not attracted to big girls and when I was online dating I said so straight up in my profile. I got some hate mail but I responded that if they feel that way, I see the problem as theirs and theirs alone. I also pointed out that I was extremely polite in expressing my preference and did not say something like, "No fat girls, no bozos." ;)

[Distant]

I'm sick of fat women saying "Real men like curves". Liking women of any shape, colour, size, religion, ethnicity, height or economic status has NOTHING to do with being a "REAL" man. Men can like any type of women they want and they'd be considered a real man.

Fat women tease skinny women because they're jealous and teasing them is easier than getting on a treadmill.

[pris09]

i couldn't agree more

[RedThread]

The problem is that people expect EVERYONE to find them appealing which is unrealistic. Everybody has preferences so we will never appeal to everyone. Everybody has a niche audience that they draw in like everything else in life.

As far as your descriptions of what thin and curvy is I choose thin.. I tend to be more attracted to thin and petite over big and curvy. That isn't to say that I don't find any curvy girls attractive because I DEFINITELY do. I just don't find the blonde bombshell type of beauty that Hollywood tries to push on the world attractive. Not my thing. Kim Kardashian is not attractive at all to me.. Sorry. I've never understood her appeal.

[bellegirl16]

I don't find Kim kardashian pretty either. I can't stand fake! Nice to know not all men are turned on by her style.

[RedThread]

Thanks yeah I'm not into that type.

[Salicianym]

I see your popularity slowly decreasing lol

[rthomas43]

Kim Kardashian is fizzine. So are certain women of literally every other body style =]

[RedThread]

lol it's kind of my intention. People seemed to like me without ever really knowing me on here. I don't like the spotlight ;)

[vmw2008]

I think Nicole is more on the curvy side. Only fat people call fat "curvy." To the normal person, curvy means just that. You have curves. You're not straight up and down with small hips and small bust. You can still be thin/skinny and be curvy.

[MissConfused93]

I agree with everything you just said. I don't make fun of bigger girls but it's okay for people to call me skinny? Yeah not really okay.

[rthomas43]

Even though you're not asking a question and using this as more of a rant, I'm picking body style: healthy.

[bellegirl16]

I think healthy is beautiful. We all weren't meant to be stick figures but that shouldn't be an excuse to be overweight either.

[pris09]

Me too, there's people with different bodies if your overweight and insecure, that's no reason to bash a thin girl. Same vice versa, if your a thin insecure girl, no need to bash on someone who isn't like you.

[Kirstensj]

Honestly, why does it matter? Men like what they like.

[Sex_Panther]

So is this about a double-standard that has been well-covered for years?

[Anonymous]

Nicole Scherzinger has curves. She's has wide hips and big breasts. Skinny girls can have curves too.

[pris09]

I think she's more petite

[Opinion Owner]

Isn't she too tall to be petite? I thought she was like 5'7" at least.

But I'm seeing hips and boobs
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She is a thin curvy

[pris09]

i had no idea she was that tall, haha

[jamaall89]

I love women. I like anywhere from thin to chubby.

[kambo_trick3y]

Real man can like whatever the hell they want.

[HelloMyNameIsRyan]

I like thin girls. But some curvy girls are pretty cute.

[beckamazara]

Real men don't choose a woman based on her body

[rgb008]

its all personal preference

[ImCoasting]

I like both, but curvy are more fun to look at

[Kavyarox12]

I have a curve body shape

[Ghostbusters]

"REAL MAN CAN LIKE WHATEVER HE PLEASE"
HEHE TRUE

[erock13]

I like whatever Avril Lavigne has going on!

[BlkStallion]

That's what she said.

[Anonymous]

Best of all is a combination: Thin and Curvy!

[biggie90]

curves for sure.