It's difficult to explain what it's like to have a boner, actually. Most of the time, we go about our day without ever giving much thought to the fact that our dicks are just hanging there.
When it starts growing and swelling, though, you can definitely feel it, and they become more sensitive/response to stimuli. When it gets rock hard... well, I guess you could call it a feeling of power or pride, I guess (for lack of a better term). It's like, "I have a big, throbbing CO*K!" You almost feel like you have a new appendage that wasn't there earlier. Not like a third arm or anything, your mental focus just shifts to it so that you're suddenly VERY aware of it, as if it's demanding your attention.
That's kind of why horny guys are said to think with their dicks instead of their brains. It's sort of a biological imperative that you just need to do something with this boner that you have before you can be satisfied. It's there, and it will not be ignored. The longer you have an unattended erection, the more you want to take care of it. If you ignore it for too long, it can almost become uncomfortable and painful. You just start to feel like you really, really need to get off, one way or the other.
I hope that helps, as I could probably go into more detail, but it's sort of like describing color to a blind person, I guess, lol.
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Embarrassing, if you are in public. If you are sitting down it is not too obvious but if you have to get up!!! Usually, the ones in public are triggered involuntarily by sight. Seeing something sexy, like a girl's ass, cleavage, poking nipples, upskirt, pantylines, or the top of her panties.
The more you like the girl personally, the easier it is to get an erection. Sometimes, a beautiful, but shy and modest girl, showing hardly anything can set off a bigger reaction than a slutty one.
If you are really excited, like it is the hottest thing you ever seen, you can feel close to climax. On one very rare occasion, I very nearly thought I was going to pop in public. Only by deep concentration, do I think it was avoided. Am sure, if the triggering girl accidentally bumped up against me, I would have shot all inside my pants.
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What does it feel like when you start to have one?
Usually it is not now please.
What are you thinking about?
Why do I have no girlfriend? I need to fuck to get rid of this.(Having sex is the easiest way to get it gone.)
hat foes it feel like when its fully "grown"?
If it is fully "grown" I don't really think about it anymore, but only feel a really strong need to insert it somewhere. Preferably a girl's vagina, anything else is just a bad alternative.
Imagine when you are ultra horny and just can't think about anything but sex. That is how we feel only stronger. And we guy can be ready in like 5 seconds, so be grateful that you live in such civilised times, where all men have an enormous self-control, otherwise you would be raped on a daily basis.
If you want to be a really nice girlfriend to whoever your boyfriend is, help him to get rid of his boner whenever he needs your help.It's like you got to use it. For example, clear road, sunny day, and you're in a super car, you just got to hit the gas.
Why we get boners..
Fantasize about u
See a HAWT petite chix
Sumtimes were just very horny xc
It hurts ma snake quite a few time when its fully erect and harden =x
It started to rise slowly and slowly til it reaches its maximum length ;3
It makes u have the urge to rub it sumwhere lelI can be thinking about nothing and still get a random hard on. It feels like a hard stick growing from out of ones pelvis, idk, I feel annoyed at getting one pretty much every time. it can be uncomfortable if it starts growing in a unusual direction, or when wearing tight blue jeans.
Typically, it's when we're thinking about sex or a hot girl or whatever... but sometimes, they'll just happen randomly. I could just be stretching and I'll get one, lol
The best explanation, is your finger, essentially. Your finger is fleshy on the outside (skin, fat) but on the inside is the bone. While there's no bone when you get an erection, that's kind of what it feels like, like there's a bone inside, because it gets so stiff. The harder it is, the stiffer it feelsIt gets hard and at times can be uncomfortable, and more sensitive
It depends on the emotion behind it.
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