I've always been called the skinny one, If I gained more weight like 20 pounds wouldn't I have a better body?

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*****basically Am I too skinny?

I have A cups and I wanna get thick so I can at least get to a B!

I've Never been called sexy or hot, all my friends with better bodies (bigger boobs) have and I've never had a boyfriend like they all have (well I'm too shy but still)
 If a guy compliments me it's my face (pretty or beautiful), I just wanna know that if I had a boyfriend I'd turn him on sexually.

I'm about 5'2 and weight 110 lbs and I know weight isn't everything because one of my friends weighs the same but has bigger boobs and it about 4'9

Levin · Accepted Answer

Could your lack of a boyfriend not be more attributable to your lack of self esteem? That you're comparing yourself to other people? People have different body shapes. If you're in the US, many people are overweight. I wouldn't look at your body and say it was skinny, in fact, I'd just describe it as normal. All men are different too. Personally, I prefer slimmer women (though I would date bigger women), boobs are one characteristic of a girl that I like in different shapes. I think this is more about the relationship you have with yourself, and these comparisons, as I say, are a form of self-castigation. Have the confidence and the courage to simply be as you are.

Mesonfielde · Accepted Answer

Well that's new, your BMI is in the healthy range. I guess you ~can~ try to gain +10 lbs, but not more than that. Although I have doubts it would work because this seems to be your natural healthy weight, so it seems excessive to just eat less healthily to store more fat, I'd rather not do that if I were you, you look okay as you are. I was expecting something stick-thin from the BMI of 18. But I really don't think that this is the primary reason why you haven't had a boyfriend so far. You need to not push away people you meet in order for them to stick around.

feral_shade · Accepted Answer

Before I get into it, I feel that as long as you're healthy (good diet/exercise), being skinny is a good thing... regardless of how anyone else may look.

If you gain 20 pounds... or any weight for that matter, you 'may' get a B cup, but the fat is going to be somewhat more evenly distributed than you might think... and your assets may not stand out as much as you'd hoped.

helva · Accepted Answer

It is not shure that your boobs become bselfigger when you gain weight! So, be carefull with your body.

Maybe you find yourself skinny but your bmi is OK. I also have an a cup and can be happy with that.

Men are turned on for the most differend reasons and if they would only look at your boobs they are not word that you should be interested in them.

Sexualchrist · Answer

110 lbs for 5'2 and small boobs probably is just within healthy bmi. If you get fat you won't be ttractive no matter how big your boobs are.
I think you are probably fine just how you are.

Don't worry about it because as you get older you will gain weight anyway as your metabolism slows down.

When you're 28, I guarantee you'll be about 15 - 20lbs heavier anyway. You may have had children by then too which will also change your body a lot.

cavmanier · Answer

Generally thinner women will have more men interested. I'm kind of amazed so many people don't know that on here. No it's not that way with every guy, but it usually is. Plus, if you throw in that there are much more overweight people in the country, statistically you're also a minority which creates more demand.

srslyjordan · Answer

You are female, you can turn any guy on just by having a female body.
some guys are idiots and only go for what they can see right infront of them (boobs), this is a disadvantage for you because you are shy and dont have big boobs.
People probably dont call you sexy or hot because you dont command that type of compliment
you are shy, they can see you are shy, therefore they won't say theese things to you.
BE MORE ASSERTIVE, that is all.

Anonymous · Answer

If you gain 20, You'll become kinda big. Im 130 and 5'6, and I really need to lose, because Im pretty damn chubchub. You have a nice body now, you don't need to lose or gain. And you don't even know for sure, if the boobs will get bigger. Maybe you'll just end up. with a giant stomach. It all depends, on where your body, puts the fat :)

Anonymous · Answer

Those girls were jealous and made fun on you Or you're not that little skinny girl anymore, you've grown :)

StickStickity13 · Answer

Stay that weight. Too many girls are overweight now.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe the girls in your area are just a bit heavier, you're fine

Anonymous · Answer

Gain weight but make sure to work out too soiit's healthy fat

randomwhiteguy · Answer

You look fine, great even

Anonymous · Answer

How busty is your 4'9" friend?  You look good, but yeah, if there was a way to only gain weight in your boobs, that'd be awesome! lol!

Anonymous · Answer

Link didn't work but just love your body

AdamThomas · Answer

You look fine.

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