There are people who like fat women, just like there are people who like amputees and people who have sex with inanimate objects.
But "most" people don't. And if you want attract more fish you have to use the right lure and that means losing weight.
But if you don't want a man to like you for your body maybe you should stay fat because that's going to weed out any man who might be shallow.
Just like a man might just remain broke and poor just to weed out any woman who might be a gold digger.
Then again, do you want to cut off an arm just to attract the small percentage of men attracted to amputees?
This is why you do things for yourself and not for anyone else. Because who gives a shit about them.
If you lose weight for yourself and you like being thin, chances are you won't care that a man likes that you are thin too. In fact you will appreciate the man who likes that you are thin because it feels nice to be recognized for all your hard work.
Not to mention you will live longer, feel healthier, have more choices in men and feel better about yourself.
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Most men prefer women that are "plus size". Plus size meaning women that are above a size zero. Women thinking men only want to date women that look like sticks, is as ridiculous as men thinking women only want to date giant freaks on steroids. People look good in lots of different shapes, not just the standard that the media shows us.
Most people have scars and stretchmarks. Most guys are going to feel lucky seeing you naked, or busy worrying about what you think of them, as well as the size of their member.
There actually ARE men out there who care more about what a girl is like on the inside than what she looks like on the outside, believe it or not. Granted, there has to be at least a 60% physical attraction to someone for anything to spark between two people, but don't count yourself as down and out just because you're overweight.
To some guy, and more likely than not quite a few guys, you're their 60% in aesthetic. And I bet you have a killer personality to hook, line and sink 'em.
I have stretch marks too, alllllll women (except extremely skinny women) have stretch marks. its natural. I have them on my hips, legs, shins, arms, butt, stomach, boobs, yes that's natural. and it's the media telling guys what to like. I don't know what you look like but from what you describes, id say sexy lol
I feel the same way. but seriously blame the media. I want to chat because I have the same issue. you can message me :)
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Some guys do, I personally don't base my feelings on what size a girl might be, If she seems awesome she's got me on her hook. And as to do with any guys if they care about your weight and that influences how they treat you well they are probably not worth keeping around
Listen to this song, I believe it's very inspirational
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtE-LlJGPyUI think curvy, voluptuous girls are hot. Very underrated.
Yes I am sure. I like thinner more athletic girls and do not mind some stretch marks. I like a realistic looking girl and rarely is a women perfect. (and the perfect women I have dated all had sever emotional problems anyway)
Yes. I seen plenty of plus size girls with bf's and husbands. Its usually the plus size guys that can't get a date unless they're rich or if the girl is plus size too.
I personally do not, but I know that some guys certainly do.
I don't care how big or small a girl is. Her face and personality attract me the most.
Of course especially if they're tall
Do you like overweight men?
no way not at all
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