Do guys ever like bigger women with confidence who are trying to get in shape and be healthy?

[Anonymous]

I'm a bigger girl but I'm nice and smart.. I just deserve better..

[CosineTangent]

Do guys ever like bigger women? Sure. There's a type of guy that loves every type of girl and vice versa.

For me personally I can't be attracted to a woman that I find unattractive in some way just because she's confident about it herself. If I don't like it I don't like it. My girlfriend had horrible self-esteem about her face and body and yet I found (and still find) everything to be absolutely perfect.

Now if you're REALLY dedicated to getting in shape, aren't horribly obese, and have a pretty face I'm sure guys would be more than willing to be into you. And that's just physical. If you have a good personality I'm sure your odds will double or triple.

[Asker]

I am obese but trying to lose weight.. I weight a lot but I just really need to lose my belly.

[CosineTangent]

Respectable and wish you the best of luck!

[AleDeEurope]

Physically I'm not attractive to big women (but it depends on how big though). But if she has a great personality, is confident, and has a big will (like you), then I can be attracted to her.

Your will to become more healthy is something that will attract many men.

[Pasdemon]

Honestly, I used to care about my weight and if guys would be interested in me, or if I would ever be in shape, basically a bunch of worries that shouldn't have been there. You are wonderful no matter what anyone says, I would rather have 1000000 friends than one boyfriend. You said you deserve better and being single is so much better. Woah to no worries!

[allexyou]

Yes girl Ima thick girl too and talking to 4 guys 1 guys a little thick not really the other 3 are tall and different types of bodies lol but they like that im nice chill smart blunt funny and everything that I might be to them these guys are out there you just have to find them

[Tokana]

I'm not attracted to bigger women. If she sits next to me on the couch and the couch she sinks the couch so much so that I start leaning towards her. Its a definite turn off. I hope you don't expect your man to be ripped.

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Irrelevant. I will never be attracted to a big woman.

[jamaall89]

How big is the woman?

[Asker]

Like over 200 but I just need to lose my belly