Why doesn't Sydney guy like big girls?

[discarded-love]

I'm young, 20, a size 16 till 18 and I can't find any guys that like bigger girls. Should I just lose the weight to find love or I'm just not looking in the right place?

[bond00713]

Hell no! Don't loose the weight! It's not weight Baby Girl, it's your confidence. I love big girls. I'm 6' 0" 190 lbs. Small dude, but hey... I can handle my own. Big girls are sexy to me. I've dated girls that have been your size, even sizes 18 and 20. Don't get bogged down with numbers. I mean, I've dated girls 5' 5" 175 lbs to 5' 9" 265 lbs.

Weight is a deception to guys. We think we can size up girls but we cant. 6' 0" 190 lbs girl is going to look maybe a little chubby but a guy at the same height and weight will look fit. Girls have hips and a little more body fat than guys (b/c your bodies have to be ready to carry a child in the future). So never mind weight. Concentrate on confidence.

A big girl need not worry about weight because there are guys that will clamour over her. A big girl with mad confidence (like her sh*t don't stink) is a skinny girl's worst nightmare. Because a skinny girl can get attention automatically by being skinny but a fat girl normally has bigger boobs or ass (which guys do like) and that can be a deal breaker.

Flaunt that sh*t girl. Wear the deep endless cleavage shirt. Guys will begin to notice The Girls and you will notice that all of a sudden they can't keep their eyes up. Wear the sexy tight jeans (I don't give a damn if they're size 20, use them hips and give them that sexy strut--guys are looking even when you don't see them).

I'm not saying all this so you can become a piece of meat. Guys are visual. That's the way we're made. Once you got us visually, the rest is up to you. Hook em sexy girl...get that bait on the hook and send it sailing into the water. And the guys will bight like piranhas.

PS: Loose weight for yourself...not the guys. Guys are attracted to sexiness and confidence. I told you how to be sexy, confidence only comes when you believe it, before you see it.

[WeaponZero]

if you're going to lose weight, do it for health reasons. losing weight is never a bad thing but I can honestly say that doing it JUST for the sole purpose of trying to snag a man is the wrong reason to. do it for health, do it to make clothes shopping easier, do it for any reason but that.

[superdeb83]

There are plenty of guys out there who like bigger girls, but the most important thing is that you are happy with yourself. If you don't like how you look then you should lose weight, but not to make guys happy because what if you were to put the weight back on? Will the guy then leave you because you've put on weight? Unfortunately it's hard to find men who are worthy of having a relationship with anyway, never mind how you look. I guess it just takes patience.

[Anonymous]

I feel you

I am 21 and a size 14, 16...there are guys who like bigger girls but straight up most of them like smaller ones. If you lose weight you will have more options with guys. Don't get too skinny though you're not super fat so you can still attract guys right now (just be a little bit more confident honey!) but get down to about sizes 6-12 and you will see the amount of attention from guys dramatically rise.