Are self harm scares a turn off?

[JACCornell]

I've got lots of scars all over my arms, thighs and stomach, they're from a long time ago but still very prominent, obviously I regret them and don't do it anymore, but how unattractive is it?

[Anonymous]

I also have self-harm scars all over my arms. They're very noticeable, but I've never had them be an issue. I Found that the more I accepted them as part of me, the less other people noticed them. They are what they are and people can take it or leave it. You should just be proud of yourself for overcoming it.

[Mesonfielde]

Depends on how conceptual I am in my judgment. I could oversee it, but I could also think of how unstable someone has to be to end up slicing themselves for no good reason. The way the scary look is the least of the prpblem.

[ValleyofDrakes]

Depends. I have a tendency to want to help people with whatever they're going through. (Sometimes I care too much). A person like me would look at that and be drawn even closer to you because of it.

[JACCornell]

Thats sweet but I mean I'm fine now and I just want to be seen as anyother person. But when people see my scars they act differently

[Akernar]

Be proud n. n those are the scars of life! most people have them in their hearts, you have them in your skin! you are here and living life so!! dont care about that!

[Anonymous]

personally i dont see that as big deal , i knew more interesting things from women than some smooth skin..

[Sirius-black]

Yes. I am not a masochist to remain with a masochist even if I like her.