Why do people think girls that look like this are the ideal?

Question

why? all of these women on this site, all of the ones that are considered attractive look so similar

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

They look plain as fuck to me. Like the typical white chick.
I'd give the first one maybe a 6/10, not ugly, but not "hot" either.
The second girl maybe like an 8/10, she's sexy.
The third girl is not my taste at all. I'd consider her not ugly, but below average. Like a 4/10.

These girls are considered "ideal" by some cuz they have blonde hair, straight or wavy hair, fair skin, and light eyes. But I don't buy that bullshit, a girl could have all that and still be an uggo (like the third girl IMO). Or she could have none of that and still be a smoking hot chick. I don't think there should be any ideals, but eh. Society dictates that, and that may not what we as individuals like, but it's what the collective mass prefers.

My type of girls are not blondies. I think redheads are sexiest. Then black hair, jet black. Then brunettes. Then grey or silver hair. Then blondes. I have odd tastes, but blonde hair is not in my preference range. Not saying blondes are ugly, cuz some are pretty. But they're not my type.

I think these girls are prettier. But these are just my tastes.
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pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

the one in the middle is the prettiest in my opinion, but none of them are ugly. they aren't my idea of an ideal woman but I grew up in a different culture so my ideal would reflect that. that being said, I can see the appeal of these women, they look like the typical hot white girl. any girl can be hot if she takes the time to take care of her appearance and body. if girls are complaining and feeling bad about it then maybe they need to work harder

becca123 · Accepted Answer

Vapid chicks trying to look pouty and sexy. The second one is prettiest of the three. Ideal? Bleach blonde clones... I don't know about ideal. I see girls like this every day, ever where. More common than ideal, I think. Good on them for finding what works for them, though. :). Many guys love this exact look... and why wouldn't they? Sex sells :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You really shouldn't be care. It is annoying though. It might have something to do with genetics. Maybe people of German descent find blondes more attractive. (Most Americans are of German descent surprisingly).( And most Germans have blonde hair and the facial features like the women shown). Yeah the media plays a part, but cultural media has more interest in pandering into what people already find desirable, rather than shaping general opinion. (unless the fashion and beauty industry is run by a bunch of eugenicist, who are trying to assert the Aryan bloodline). It could just be blonde with sharp facial features is such an unspecific appearance, that its sort of a common ground of physical attraction. In a way its not the most ideal the media is promoting, its in a way the lowest common denominator. And because these type of faces appear in the media so often people find them more familiar therefore more attractive. But I guess the upsetting part of this is you might think your own appearance is less desirable in general if it doesn't reflect the ideal. Only one person has to find you attractive though.

imdaonedatgotaway · Accepted Answer

the one in the middle is cute, the other two are not. again, if it was a different photographer the other two might have been cute and the middle one have not been.

when you said men think, what you actually meant was "what picture of beauty did media have tattoo on our minds". it's all illusion, photography and photoshop. yes some women do have better features that others. But most of it is fake, make up and shit. a woman looks her prettiest when she respects herself and others. she's pretty with her personality and intelligence. her loyalty and love. her kindness and warmth.

Of course looks matter, but everyone is different. My 10 could be Steve's 6. And Steve's 10 might be my 4. Thats one of god's many gifts for us. He made us different with different interests.

And even if i see a girl that i think she's a ten, but i didn't feel any mental connection, then i would lose interest.

Cheers

kairon156 · Answer

1st one is kinda eww 2nd one is alright but far from pretty. the 3rd one is the only one I like at all. here are a few that I think look thousands of times better.

VulcanHades · Answer

Wow, guys are so full of shit LOL. They say these girls are a 5 or 6 at best. Yet if they were members here they would say they are an 8 or 9 easy...

Those women are all beautiful but what is "ideal" will vary from guy to guy. I'd rate them 7, 8 and 9 in that order.

Anonamist · Answer

1. these girls have on way too much make up. I hate when girls cake it on like that. I know you don't naturally look like that so none of them look appealing at all to me.
2. I saw your women of color comment and how they should be more represented, and I completely agree. I'll be honest though and say that I tend to find more caucasian girls attractive than I do women of color. I can't really explain why, but it's just certain traits I find prettier. It's all a matter of opinion. You con't control what you find attractive.

meatballs21 · Answer

Here, have a 'woman of colour' that I think is very very hot!  I don't think much of the ones you linked, the first is the best of the bunch but that's not saying a lot.

front2back · Answer

The only one who's attractive is the girl in the second photo, and by attractive I mean sexually gratifying only.

Most men don't want women who look like those you posted, they actually like women who like this:
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Vinvei · Answer

Beauty is all about proportions: Full lips are attractive, a small nose, etc. Funny thing is that the more average a face is the more attractive the person. Scientists found that by merging a lot of faces together the ending result was more attractive than a person on their own.

Anonymous · Answer

I always say this! They all look so similar aswell it always makes me wonder why guys are not attracted to women of color so Asians, black, latinas etc! Like mix it up a little instead of always going for Caucasians. I feel a lot do attempt things with women of colour even though just for experimentation purposes though unfortunately.

Jonny_ · Answer

The first two are pretty but nothing unbelievable, I don't think any of them look that similar... I find more people who look like duplicates on somewhere like Facebook or Tinder, basically because of fashion/beauty trends a lot will wear the same stuff, have the same general haircut, have the same eyebrow shape, have the same style makeup etc... it's moronic.

ImKervin · Answer

Honestly. . . only the 2nd picture is prettier compared to the others.

I just think that just like girls who loves to meet a very attractive guy and think he's the one. We're no different , the only difference is, girls are more picker compared to us but.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Those three are all 6.5-7.5. And overly blonde for my taste.

Heroofwar599 · Answer

I dont like the way they look.

The first looks unhealthy, the second looks like a bitch, the third... is a bit debatable.

What i look for, physically, is the eyes, if they have beautiful eyes, and if they are not a toothpick, but not morbidly obese. Like this quote: "Women without curves are like jeans without pockets, you dont know where to put your hands"

and that is true. but the three you posted, are not an ideal image for anyone I look for.

incognito121 · Answer

They are all blonde what is ideal about that... or. is. that what you think all men go for are overly thin blonde women hmmm sorry but does it really matter why would you want anyone to rate you at end of the day people are who they are and it doesn't matter how high the picture is rated tbey are still that person and who is to say they are even a nice person.

ThatGuy98 · Answer

As others have said they are pretty but not ideal. Here is what I consider close to perfect; [IMG]

binny91 · Answer

2nd and third one are attractive, 1st one isn't at all.

There attractive because their face and hair are done up and they look clean and presentable in a photo. But in real life it maybe a different story.

Besides they look too caked up for my taste I'm all for the natural look

Splintercell · Answer

They are slim they are attractive, but I don't know them. Not everybody has the same qualities that the next guy looks for. Body wise about a 6 or 7. But I don't know there personality or attitude? They can be boring or bratty. Maybe not the first but the second and third are nice.

How about why do women preferrer for a guy to have a bodybuilder figure?

notverycreativeguy · Answer

Who says people think that? I don't think girls looking like those are the ideal, personally, I wouldn't even give those a 6; I see a lot of girls daily on the bus, train, in school etc. who would be a 9-10 to me though.
It's just that people's tastes are different.

adastra · Answer

Because they look young and healthy? Humans are hard-wired to be attracted to things that look healthy so it makes sense that the women that more people thought were attractive have a good, healthy look to them.

Stacyzee · Answer

The 1st and 3rd are kind of unattractive to me. The 2nd is the only decent one. I think it's the area you live in. Because a lot of people have different choices in women.

Anonymous · Answer

The first one looks like a  p*rnstar  from the 90s, the second one is cute but nothing special; and the last one looks like she needs to do her hair. She gets points for the eyes, but that stringy hair has to go!

DodgersGM · Answer

I didn't look at the pictures, but that's mostly because we all have different ideals; it us so subjective. And even then, our ideals can evolve and change depending on our connection with another person.

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