Tut, Tut, Child... But Really, Why?

[Anonymous]

We're so obsessed over how we look- it's a bit strange, honestly. We should all just slow down and enjoy life for a moment.
At least, that's what I tell people who are struggling with self-esteem issues.
I look in the mirror, and that gets swept under the rug.
I don't think I'm horrifying. I have a pretty average face and WILD curly brown hair, and I do like my eyes. But I'm short (5'1'') and I feel overweight. I believe I'm around 125-130, and I'm 13. I eat pretty well, and try to exercise everyday. Is this normal? Should I try to lose weight, or maintain my current weight?
(Also: This is every heavier person's excuse, I know, but my birth parents are both big, and I believe part of my problem is due to genetics. My adoptive parents are slim and fit.)

Should I Lose Weight?

Should I Remain The Same?

[NoDoubt]

There is no option for this one but you're 13, so you're gonna have a little weight on you. You don't need to lose weight, just don't sit in front of the tv all the time. It's nice to get some exercise and you can do this bby biking, walking, hop scotch, a sport, swimming, anything really. As you get older and more active the weight will just drop off of it's supposed to. Like if it's "baby fat" it will drop as you get older as long as you don't feed into it. But exercise is always good, for everyone. I like to do it by walking/jogging (on beach or nature trails) and playing basketball. I also like to swim when it is scorching hot out. these are examples of what you can do to stay active :) also, lay off the sweets. Don't eat a lot of junk food, though you can have the occasional treat :) you're fine at your age and weight. :)

[Schneidy]

Don't worry about it, you're only 13 and your body is still developing, as long as you maintain a healthy and active lifestyle (and from what you've said it sounds like that's not a problem) you'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

Hm. You're fine.