Activities to do to get your mind off a certain woman?

[Anonymous]

What are some activities to do to get your mind off a certain woman? help me out here! Come on!

[Anonymous]

I am having the same problem. Usually I surround myself with friends, hang out with other people, if you are at the right age maybe go out clubbing or drinking and have some fun. You don't necessarily need to have a hookup, maybe even just someone else to think about. Maybe try and think about intellectual things like everyday science or something. Pick up a hobby, go travel, get in your car or on a motorbike (if you have one) and go for a drive.

[Asker]

I know but it's harrrrd!
It's just...
... she's amazing!
I'm gonna go climb a mountain

[Opinion Owner]

hahha GO CLIMB THAT MOUNTAIN! She might be amazing but there are many others, maybe you are viewing her with rose-coloured glasses.

[Asker]

No she is Rose colored beauty and she just doesn't have the self esteem to know it

[Opinion Owner]

hmmm I don't know man, like again... maybe try and think about the bad qualities or something? just try and think less about her romantically and more like "oh she seems like a cool person" try and make your thoughts of her less emotional... I don't know

[Asker]

She spells bad in texts...

..:but *sigh*... so dreamy!

[Asker]

If she were to lose your glass slipper at a ball, then I would for sure by all means give it back to her the rightful owner

[Opinion Owner]

Okay... hmmm here are some points that you can think about when you catch yourself thinking about her:
1. What am I doing tomorrow?
2. What will happen to astronauts in the future? Will they explore other planets? Will we end up living on another planet?
3. If I could create my own world, what would it be like? Would it have water pockets floating in the sky? would we be able to fly? etc.
4. Are Governments corrupted? Think of points for and against.
5. What would happen if I was to breed a Dalmatian and a pug? (Maybe even try photoshopping the end result of it).
That is all I can think of but right now it is working very well for me :)

[Asker]

I've thiuhht of most of those ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Is it working at all? Like I like think up of my own world because there is literally no end to it!

[Asker]

It helps. The thing is, this girl would call me all the time when we qorked together. Those were the times that I thought up my own world and didn't give a fuck!
now I do and you know how that destroys anything extraordinary!

[Opinion Owner]

I understand, and soon it will get to a time where you start to get a little angry with her. Of course it is not er fault but you will be so frustrated that someone is able to do this to you, that you have lost the ability to be in control of your emotions. This is good though, despite the fact that the endless thinking about her is tormenting you, this will motivate you more to go out and do things and distract yourself.

[Asker]

It's already happened.
I've done things like decided to stop texting her and then there she is

[Asker]

The power of walking away

[Opinion Owner]

Gah yeah I did the same by deleting this guy's contact, his Facebook, and even trying to avoid places that I know he hangs out. But there is always this little trigger that just ruins it you know?

[Asker]

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[Asker]

I kept pumping into her at Walmart last night when I thought I was completely done with her.
She waves at me with a smile and then me and my brother kept on ending up in the same isle as her accidentally

[Asker]

A few months ago she got out of jail. Her step dad found a thing on Facebook that she was hanging out with this criminal who steals credit cards. I had to warn her but I had no way possible to get ahold of her. It was killing me inside to think that she would steal credit cards. I had to find her and see if it was true. For some reason a voice inside my head told me to go to target area. She wasn't in there but then sports authority was right next to it. The voice of my conscience told me to go in there and there she was with her friend.
I got her number and then told her what's happening. She said she was hanging out with bad people after jail and doesn't anymore. Psssh... bullshit!

[Asker]

Bumping. I wish I was pumping into her hahaha kidding!

[Opinion Owner]

Wow okay she is pretty but I don't know... I dont really know about this like it sucks for you that you just got over her and then she comes back. There is no way whatsoever that you could just be friends? maybe ttry and get into the mindset of a platonic relationship. Try to think of her as just a friend, try to stop thinking about 'pumping into her' and more about 'hey cool person' and I don't know have this relationship where you hardly talk but you still mutually agreee that you like each other in a friend way. I don't know...

[Asker]

I was kidding about pumping into her. Haha
Just chill! Lol

[Asker]

And no I can't agree to be just friends. It's either we don't talk at all or we become lovers. I have enough friends so if we don't talk then that's it

[Opinion Owner]

Well I guess you know your option, sorry buddy :(

[Asker]

What made you join girls ask guys?

[Asker]

And it is all her fault

[Asker]

I think I know you

[chocolateismylover]

Go for a run
Play some video games
Watch a movie
Learn something new

[JackKerouac77]

Play with goatie
Grow tomatoes
Eat pasta
Read a book

[chocolateismylover]

Whata perfect list @JackKerouac77

[Smaug]

Video Games.
Movies.
Chatting with other females.
Sports.
Chilling with friends.

Anything that leaves you with a lot of time to think is what keeps your mind on them. Even running can keep your mind on a girl, because you have a lot of time to think. Do an activity which requires attention to whatever it is and not other things. That's what works for me at least.

[JohnScofield787]

Reading, sports, working out, traveling, joining a club, volunteering, meeting a new woman...

[Ihav2fart]

I use my kick box stand, run on my treadmill til I get the runners high then run some more. If that doesn't work I take a long random drive while listening to music.

[Asker]

I donrunnkn treadmill but I don't wanna drive cause I'll drive to her house.
TOTALLY KIDDING!!

[Anonymous]

Play games or sports. Find flaws about her. Done!!!

Mission accomplished.

[Asker]

You just got your heart broken

[Opinion Owner]

I am done with women in general. I am now planning to travel around the world. Life is amazing without one.

[Asker]

Good luck! :)

[Anonymous]

Bake some cupcakes!

[Asker]

They will be stale