Guys, do you like fat girls?

[Anonymous]

I don't like fat girls. I like my girls skinny or average weight.

Guys do you like fat girls?

The fatter the better!

I like fat girls

I like girls of average weight

I like skinny girls

[MaskedSanity]

Well, from the way the question is worded it would appear you're asking mostly what guys think. But since you have not enabled gender filtering, I'll go ahead and chunk my 2 cents in.

I don't like fat guys either. I just can't bring myself to be with someone I find physically repulsive. There would be no sex and I'd be pretty miserable.
It's one thing to have a slight chub on them, but when they are just fat, I'm instantly turned off.

That being said, I don't think there's anything wrong with your preference as I imagine you have a similar outlook to my own in terms of physical attraction. Can't be with someone you're not physically attracted to and that's completely understandable.

But of course people are gonna call you out on your hypocrisy and I personally agree. If you don't hold yourself to the same standards you expect from others, nobody is going to be particularly impressed.

It's not your preference that's the issue here, it's the character behind it.

[shesAcylon]

I think its great you know what you like. I don't have a preference. I am fat and my SO loves me. I love me. You know what you like so that takes some edge off the search for the right one. Not sure why so many people took this as a opportunity to tell you about your looks. I have seen couples of all sorts. Skinny girl with fat man, fit guy with curvy girl, ugly with gorgeous. If that is what makes them happy then I am glad they found it as I hope you find your lady one day and she fits the mold you have made for her

[MoshingExec]

Comment of the day. I like it when people can look at something logically rather than attack someone.

[gray_sailor]

@MoshingExec

Totally agree with you.

@shesAcylon thank you for having a sensible response to this young man's post. I suspect that your size lends something to your perspective here.

As a man that married a larger woman, I have been incensed at the assertion that he has no right to seek a thin girl but should 'settle' for a fat girl on account of his size. The bulk of the women in this thread have been fat shaming him and devaluing large women as compared to their thinner peers.

Large women are equal in value to thin women. They are not consolation prizes to be handed out to men that don't measure up to some arbitrary standard of physical attractiveness.

If all women are equal, what matter his preferences? We would not be having this discussion if he favored blonde hair and redheads need not apply.

[shesAcylon]

@gray_sailor Thank you @MoshingExec I appreciate that

[olala]

LET'S BURN ALL THE FREAKING WEIGHING SCALES.

I LOVE YOU ALL.

[watashiwahanadesu]

I'm with you!

[Asker]

LOL! Good idea.

[Kabloosh75]

I'm thin and pretty athletic looking so I prefer girls I date to be in similar physical condition.
That doesn't mean I'll completely rule out an charming semi overweight girl. If she's a blimp well that's a 100% no go.
How you take care of your body tells quite a bit about yourself actually. Yeah there are people that have an legitimate disability but they are few and far between. Most obese people are like that because they are lazy or have a reckless diet... Or usually a combination of both. I understand the difficulties of getting to the gym or doing some exercise a few days a week when you work so much. I get it, but I do it anyways. I was in the military it was part of the job and I had to work out after work.
So to me it matters how you look. It is a reflection of your personality and how much you respect yourself. So get out there and get fit and don't get pussed of I don't find you attractive because you're 80 pounds heavier than me yet I'm 3 inches taller than you.

[DaveyYourFavey]

I dont like your options.

I like my girls curvy (which is not fat btw)

Wide hips, narrow waist, big boobs, hourglass figure and a little "thickness".

I don't like skinny girls :/ Women like VS models don't appeal to me at all...

I just love curvy women :)

[mutedaisy]

To you and your pug-tacular self I say

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[mutedaisy]

pudge-tacular*

[live4love]

I adore you

[HeatherJaney]

People need to calm down. I know fat women who want 6ft ripped men. This fat guy wants a thin girl. It's all preferences.

Personally I like fit/normal weight guys. (I'd say average but that is overweight now and I don't like fat guys.)

Again preferences are allowed even if considered hypocritical but I'm a fit girl into fit guys.

[RandomStudent]

So much this, there's nothing wrong with preferences.

[gray_sailor]

Yours is the only response that makes sense.

Saying he has no right to desire a skinny girl is to say that fat girls are all he deserves.

Fat girls are not some sort of lesser creature that are meant only as consolation prizes.

The whole concept is rude. I say this as someone who voted for the fat girl preference.

[tmac725]

Not to be a dick but you really shouldn't be so judgmental pal. We all know what people are gonna say. Healthy is what's important and there's people everywhere who struggle with their weight, have a little more respect when you pose questions like this.

[lanternhill]

I don't think people understand that saying "it's a preference - is he a hypocrite for liking girls with x criterion that he doesn't have?" is faulty logic. The issue is that this question implies that being fat is bad (or that being thin is better) (whereas skin color for instance is not bad) - and people saying he should be thinner are saying that you should be "as good" as what you want.

I don't care if he's big and likes skinny girls as long as he doesn't bash on bigger people. I also don't think being above a certain weight is healthy, and therefore yes they should get thinner and/or whatever healthy looks like on them, but it's not ok to say that someone is less as a partner just because they're not tiny. (Obviously sexual attraction needs to be there - I'm just saying that *with that established*, people need to stop hating on those who aren't a size 0 but are still healthy. As for those who aren't considered attractive due to weight, keep working at your health.)

[lanternhill]

Just to clarify I'm saying that within the range of healthy weight (which varies from person to person), people need to stop saying that "you must be as tiny as possible." Healthy is healthy. Leave it alone.

[lanagirl]

Hmm I understand that you can have preferences. I mean, that's probably something you can't change. But the average woman in the United States is overweight so if you only like slim gals it's really going to decrease your potential dating pool. Maybe you could try to give a chubbier girl a chance. If you're able to look past her weight, you may find you like her for other reasons! A lot of my friends, including myself, aren't what you'd consider slim. But we can be as great as any skinnier girls! Maybe try and focus less on appearance in the beginning, so you can really get to know people.

[carrotforscale]

And you'd date a short guy, huh?

[lanagirl]

I'm actually currently seeing someone shorter than me. I like him for other reasons.

[lanagirl]

Don't be so bitter. Everyone is going to have natural preferences... but those preferences don't necessarily have to be a rule. If we all only dated based on stupid "standards" we could miss out on some great people.

[Scrambled]

What I don't get about the women comments on this thread, is that they all say "who are you to choose?", "have you taken a look in the mirror?", basically who are you asker to judge? the irony being that you have standards, you being confident etc, which attracts girls;) Then when I try explore the ugliness factor in my questions below, some women fight to the death that its not about looks. Dude, have your preferences and be merry, who gives a fuck about others opinions anyway.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1333877-has-anyone-embraced-their-ugliness-or-social-ineptness-no-it-s

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1381487-they-say-you-shouldn-t-just-settle-for-any-women-or-guy-but-i-have

[Scrambled]

Oh... and another thing, looks don't count much if a guy looks good either. I am VERY fit. 6 pack, V lines, the hardest arse on the planet (my female friends and colleagues love punching my behind) do gym always (7 years and still going), I do boxing too, and it all counts for nothing if you don't have personality. Again that in itself contradicts the negative responses thrown your way. I can accept girls for having their physical preferences (as well as guys) but to go contradictory and make it all about looks makes me wonder.

[crystalt70]

Best comment yet.

[Snorkasaurus]

Whoa. He just said "I don't like fat girls." Why all the hate? I have a somewhat low EQ and i really want to know why. Why is what he said considered bashing? Yes i can see in the picture that he is not skinny. But since when is does our body shape should dictate our preference. It's like most of you think that a guy dating a skinny guy is wrong. Why is this?

[Consultant]

I'll just put it to ya straight.

Fat acceptance is a huge problem.

People shouldn't be fat.

The only people that are with fat people are fat people.

Just like smoking is a problem, being fat is a problem. It's destroying your body literally, self imposing a host of diseases and failing organs. It's just not worth it.

[Consultant]

Clarification: I'm not talking about curvy or naturally curvy. That's of course fine and attractive.

I'm talking about being overweight and/or obese. I think we all know how to spot that.

[mistninja314]

Yup I like any girl with a cute face in general 31.media.tumblr.com/...5u9xbwxTR1ryogk0o1_1280.jpg

[snowboarder720]

I've never been attracted to a large woman. I don't hate on them... I just don't prefer them. The reason being is that I love having a very active life. I'm an awesome snowboarder, I skateboard a lot, I love aggressive sports and extreme sports, I hike mountains like a beast, and I love just getting out.
I want a woman who may keep up with me and help push my physical boundaries making me more fit and help me conquer my goals and dreams. I can't do that with a large woman. I have nothing personal against them, and AGAIN I DO NOT HATE ON THEM.

[dipta]

Yeah, we were really in dire need of promoting once again the hate against fat people, especially females, and even create a poll with biased options for people to vote on...

We all know that given a choice most men would prefer model like girls (and that's not even counting the girl's shape or proportions) even when they themselves may look like Jabba.
And we all know that's especially true with guys in your age range who don't seem to see women as people i. e. care enough about the girl's personality.
Nothing to see here...

[snowboarder720]

There's two things to consider when men are wanting to date a woman. Physical attraction and personality. Those are the two golden reasons for why men are attracted to women. Personally, I like to have a little bit of both. Average shape with a pleasant personality. I don't hate on bigger women, I just don't prefer them. It's a mere preference. The same reason why women won't date me because I'm too short or too tall. Nothing to get defensive about.

[dipta]

@snowboarder720
It's not about me being defensive about being fat or even a female, it's just that I don't think we need another poll to state what's a general obvious preference and which only resulting effect is pointing out how some people with determined characteristics aren't 'preferred'. Like, whatever.
And young guys who really care about personality aren't that many.

[snowboarder720]

I don't think it's very obvious knowing how many guys prefer curvy women. I honestly don't know that answer and there are a few guys that don't mind extra curves. It may be helpful to know for women who are curious to know. Rather than "pointing out how some people with determined characteristics aren't preferred".
Yeah, well they are young for a reason. They'll learn sooner or later that personality matters, until then let them live their lives how they want.

[dipta]

@snowboarder720
There's nothing helpful about this poll and the question is not about curvy women but fat, average and skinny women. Again, it's well known that a 'few men' like curvy women (or don't mind, as you put it) but it's still not a preference for most of them.
I'm not the one interfering with how other people live their lives. I'm not the one starting a thread on a public forum claiming I don't like this or that. The only thing I'm pointing out is, if you don't have anything to say, then don't say anything because rather than complimenting skinny and average girls, he and other guys are just putting down fat girls. That's the only thing coming out from here.

[snowboarder720]

@dipta
Curvy is a better way to refer to bigger women. I don't like to used the exact term "fat" because it's a word that seems like it's putting down on them like an insult. This is why I'm referring to them as curvy. Like all posts on the internet, there will be insults and such so when insults are made you or anyone else shouldn't take it personal.
I find this post interesting because I don't know the exact numbers of how many men don't mind curvy women. This poll helps clarify. If you couldn't tell, this site is used primarily by the younger crowd so of coarse there are immature responses. Your choice is to see through it all and take everything as a grain of salt, or get offended and make a big deal out of it.
It's the easy way vs the hard way. Which path you'd like to take is entirely up to you.

[lollipopfop]

When you are looking for a person that you want to have sex with, you need to be attracted to them, and that means you need to be physically attracted to them. There is nothing wrong with looking for a partner that you find beautiful. For most people, a part of physical beauty is health. Being fat is unhealthy. Its the leading cause of death for women in many western countries. Not to mention that overweight people have trouble with many activities like hiking, running, and that will be a barrier to fun.

[Kris85]

It's ok to have preferences but don't be surprised or pissed off. when a thinner girl doesn't want to date you because HER preferences are fit or thinner guys.

[RandomStudent]

This is a fair comment, unlike every other rude comment on this thread.

[oldanddecrepid]

@Kris85 could not have said it better!

[gray_sailor]

Well said while not being offensive.

Too many others have basically been devaluing big girls by saying that he does not deserve any better than that.

[baarkmann]

the irony in your comment, you are a close minded one...

Anyway i don't mind her weight, aslong as she isn't ugly.
the face matters the most, if she has a really cute face i will consider regardless whether she's fat or not.

skinny girls may look slightly better, but there are some cute fat girls i would choose over ugly skinny ones.

[baarkmann]

basically for me it comes down to genetics, not weight. if she has a nice face , then weight is not a issue.
take this girl for e. g. she's fat but cute...

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[TheSpartan]

Being fat destroys a woman's facial attractiveness, though. Ever wonder why you don't see any facially attractive fat women?

[baarkmann]

@TheSpartan your right to an extent, it does take away some of their looks... But you can be "skinny" and still be ugly.

losing weight doesn't necassirly mean more attractive , just look at her snooki from jersey shore, she was pretty cute even tho she was fat, she's lost that weight and look at her now...

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[crystalt70]

I agree with you.

[CHARismatic110]

A little judgmental aren't we? You're allowed to like what you like, but you aren't the most fit guy at the table. You're idea of fat may not be the same as someone else's. Just thought I'd throw that out there.

[Galden]

Different people have different likes. If you go by evolution, if we all liked the same thing, then the last 7,000 years would of made us all look the same.
I grew up around Blondes, I think shiny Black hair is the prettiest in the world!!
My wife with great Black hair thinks Blonde is the best. LOL

[CHARismatic110]

@Galden I agree and I said that he's allowed to like what he likes. But to judge someone for their weight when he's not exactly in a position just doesn't sit well with me

[Galden]

Why not?
Some men like heavy women. Some like little weight, some like skinny.
Its just what we find attractive.
For me when a girl gets a breast job i think its a sin. Why? Simple.
I like small breast. Many man like large, many like normal for were they live.
If a person is happy with there weight, then there is no problem.
Do no condone a person who does not like your weight. It goes both ways.
" she is to skinny, she can never have a healthy child! Or she is to fat. Or she spends all her time at the gim, thinks to much about herself."
See!! Most people will not like your weight. Ever. You can only be in one of five weight classes. So the other fore will not like you..
Just be the person you want to be! And the hell with what others think.

[RandomStudent]

All he said was he has a preference, get over yourself.

[CHARismatic110]

@RandomStudent he can have a preference all he wants. But he doesn't need to bash others just because they aren't his type. How bout you mind your own business.

[RandomStudent]

He never bashed anyone else, he simply stated a preference and YOU bashed him (with a rude comment). And when you post an opinion to the public as rude as yours you have to expect criticism

[CHARismatic110]

@RandomStudent I don't care for the way he worded it and I spoke on it. Which I'm allowed to do. And I wasn't rude in my comment to him. You're allowed to have a problem with what I said to him, but I'm not allowed to have issues with what he said? You're a hypocrite.

[RandomStudent]

We're all allowed to say anything, never said you had no right to say anything you said. Not sure if you just imagined me impending your freedom of speech or what, but I assure you I approve of your right to say anything to anyone, but you have to expect criticism of your words too. My problem was with how you insulted him, his questions wasn't about his fitness, and that's what you made it about.

[CHARismatic110]

@RandomStudent you ignored the part where I said that he was allowed to like what he wants. He said something about weight and so did I.

[GirlsLie]

I think the problem is the word "fat" is just over used in times it shouldn't be and subjective. If you have a preference, that's completely fine but you come across a little rude throwing that word around.

[RandomStudent]

It's just a word, and it wasn't really used in a negative context so I don't see what's wrong with it

[CHARismatic110]

@RandomStudent it's not just a word to some people...

[CHARismatic110]

@GirlsLie exactly. There were other ways this could have been worded. And I don't feel like I was rude.

[GirlsLie]

Words aren't "just words" though, words have meanings. How would we express ourselves if words had no meanings.

[suckclick]

Having a healthy lifestyle is the most important thing. Eating healthy, exercising, no mental baggage or problems like depression is the most important thing. A healthy lifestyle leads to aging with grace.

I'm most attracted to girls who take good care of themselves with a hip-waist-bust ratio of about 0.70. Even if they body type is a bit on the chub side it's still OK if they are overall healthy. A skinny-fat girl is a turn off. Someone who eats a lot, is unhealthy and still skinny... Their bodies are typically toxic inside... A total turn off once you get to know them.

Also many people who are overty fat or over eat often have mild depression which I'd rather not deal with. Just take the caloric intake you need and move on to other enjoyable activities in life... Hahaha

[PureBliss]

This is honestly just his own personal preference and no one should be getting mad about or offended by it. If you're offended then you're obviously not happy with yourself. Obviously he's overweight, but your own looks don't play a rule in what you're attracted to. This is stupid though. Really lol what happened to looking past the outer figure and getting to know whats on the inside.

[zazada12]

Lmao... okay?

I really can't even think of a nice way to express my opinion. So I'll just say this

Kinda hypocritical. That's alright. You're into skinny girls, understandable. And reversable. Don't be surprised if a majority of skinny girls don't want overweight guys.

[MoshingExec]

It's not hypocritical. I like girls with long hair. I have short hair. Am I a hypocrite? Don't be like retarded Rob Lowe, be like normal Rob Lowe.

[zazada12]

Can you fuck off? You don't need to comment on everyone's opinion and try to make them feel bad because you don't fucking agree with it. I said it in the nicest way I could to keep assholes like you and arguments away.

[MoshingExec]

Last I checked I can comment on whatever I choose. Don't like it? Then have a conniption. Wait, you already did.

The point is you are wrong. If you cannot see that then wander back into the uneducated crowd. It isn't hypocritical to have a personal preference. It is what people are attracted to which isn't a matter of choice. It's no different than having a preference for people who have of a number of physical differences from you. Hair color, eye color, hair length, athleticism, etc. Don't be retarded rob lowe.

[zazada12]

Lmao do you get your enjoyment in life from arguing with people online? Just because someone thinks differently than you, doesn't mean they're wrong. The world doesn't revolve around you and what you believe. Act your age and stop calling people retarded for not believing your goddamn ideas, alright? You're not changing my mind in the slightest and I'm done putting up with your stupid ass remarks, so fuck off.

[beachgirl1995]

When was the last time you have looked in the mirror? You would like a skinny girl but you aren't even all that fit yourself. You might want to reconsider your thinking because I don't know any skinny girls who would even consider hooking up with you. Hit the gym, buddy.

[MoshingExec]

Your comment is moronic. It suggests that fat people are only allowed to like other fat people.

[Kshppatel]

OP I know you don't want to hear this but what gives you the right to judge fat girls when you are fat yourself. Look guy I am fat too but you don't see me saying I don't like fat girls. Having preferences is cool but still.

[lollipopfop]

Fat people are costing the country billions in health care dollars, so i don't much like them either. The worst thing is that they keep on trying to make people think it is normal to have rolls of fat, and thighs that get sore from rubbing as they walk! Obviously, that is not what the human body was meant to be. The more we accept fat as being normal, the more people out there decide that they will just pig out and get fat. And I don't mean the kid of food they eat. Its the quantity. You can eat healthy foods, but if you eat too much of them, its still bad for you.

[CubsterShura]

"The worst thing is that they keep on trying to make people think it is normal to have rolls of fat, and thighs that get sore from rubbing as they walk!"

Both of them are normal and have nothing to do with being fat. I'm moderate weight with a moderate body but still have belly rolls. I don't have thick thighs so I don't get the chub rub but many women who tend to be thick around there do.