You've tangled yourself in a very difficult situation that no amount of medicine or advice could sum up to. However, coming out gently, esp to your boyfriend would be more 'easier' if there's any more tantamount word with it.
Now, more than ever, you need all the support that you can get. I know that it's a shocking news but the sooner you try to let your family know the more you can get through with this. I do not know how far in advance your health condition is, but remember that having a cancer would never be the end of the world. There are cancers that can be treated and patients tend to fully recover. I don't know if you remember the movie, Patch Adams, but it simply showed how important laughter, love and patience could do to a patients. If you succumbed to depression, it will worsen everything that is around you.
If your boyfriend truly loves you, you can test how far he can go into your new journey. At least now, you have a way to find out how much he loves you.
My prayers and support are with you! Godbless
You need to tell them because it could hurt them really bad if you keep it yourself but it is better if you can bring them to your doctor and let doctor explain what it is clearly. It actually helps them to understand the situation better and what you have and what kind of prognosis you have.
And after sharing it with your family, it becomes little bit easier to tell your friends and family.
Well tell them the same way you just told all of us on the internet. Your boyfriend loves you so telling him will be a weight of your shoulders. From there he can help you break the news to your family. Can't plan a life together and go through something this hard alone. Believe me I've tried it doesn't work out well.
You just come out and tell them. They're your family, friends and boyfriend. They love you and they'll support you through this. Don't worry about some perfect way to tell them or you'll just put it off. They're going to have your back on this.
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Omg I remember when I was told that I have cancer and got the earliest treatment asap and its been 6 months since then. i had some kind of bone cancer i forgot the name it was long. But just don't hide it, just talk to them asap, it can be treated at the earliest stage. Be like "i need to talk, i just discovered i have cancer, in my right breast" I know how u feel at the moment but you need other ppl's support, just don't worry too much its not when ur in a bad condition.
go fully raw vegan only organic stuff. consume five apricot kernels per day or find a good b17 supplement. take shiitake mushrooms. and do what he says.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qd2vl6PtDJk
I think you just have to sit them down and tell them.
Presumably, this will require hospital treatment; so, it's not something you can really keep quiet.
I suggest u tell them all as the doctor told u but i am so so beyond sorry and im keeping u in my prayers
damn...
maybe u should inform them... but not suddenly...
I think you should just tell them straight forward. Why hide it any longer? The support you'll receive from them will be beyond helpful for you. Best of luck!
Honesty is always the best policy.
Yo I got the big c
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