Personally I wouldn't take him back ( as your man ) but you obviously still care deeply for him. I think he cares for you and at first rushed to commit to you before you went overseas. Then he got frustrated, he loved you but couldn't be with you physically. You said you "rushed" to get back together but had more important issues than him in your life ( it happens). People are often selfish and he was expecting you to fly into his arms with the quickness. I honestly don't know if he didn't care about what you were going through or didn't know. He knows you well enough to know what hurts you and that may be the reason he said those things. The key word in boyfriend is friend! Now to the present.. I believe he will break his neck to see you and my advice is let him suffer for a while. He hurt you by being a d*** and he should realize you had health/financial issues and he should have been supportive . If anything if he is open to being friends again cool, if he's an ass KICK HIS ASS!
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You guys have been through a LOT. Although, there seems to be some underlying issues here. Why would he call you a liar and it seems that he is the person that knows you best? I think he's having committment issues, or he's feeling nervous or intimidated by you coming back. It sounds like he's scared of taking the relationship to the next level..he can commit to you over the phone, but you coming home turns the situation into reality. The third time may be the charm, but that is up to the two of you. Since you are sure you will bump into him when you go home, do not contact him. When you do see him, act casual. I say take no initiative to try and 'pick things back up again'. Let HIM work to get YOU back if he is serious about it this time. Also, tell him you are finished playing games. Tell him there will not be a fourth chance! You don't deserve getting your heart broken that many times in one year.
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