Guys, I'm in an awkward spot with my body. I'm too fat to be skinny and too skinny to be fat. I fear no will notice me because of this. Am I hopeles?

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People say personality is all that matter but due to some REALLY horrible experiences I know that's a lie. I'm not ugly, in fact I get told I'm cute a lot. But I don't turn heads or get longing stares like other girls who happen to be be to be skinny or chubby. I've only ever seen guys obese of those two kinds of girl but never girls like me who are in the middle. People tell me I'm fine but not having been asked out can make anyone doubt the confidence in their ability to attract anyone. Am I just the girl guys for because they couldn't get the either or option?

CincinnatiRedsfan · Accepted Answer

If you have a huge butt and a small, like you mentioned, I would consider you curvy. I wouldn't consider that "fat" or "skinny." Your shape is ideal to many men, especially me. The girl below in the video has the body I'm talking about.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYlFKKiudFE&list=PLvkv4pfE3Ugxz-vU4v8JflTroj0-OrJ79

Do you have a photo of yourself so we can rate you? I'm sure you look fine.

KDA20 · Accepted Answer

I doubt you are a make do - Guys tend to like all different sizes - I know it is a cliche but you probably just haven't met the right guy yet so forget about what is happening to other girls and allow yourself to accept yourself more then your time will come.

GrayWolf · Answer

"I'm too fat to be skinny and too skinny to be fat." sounds like your just right dont like skinny toothpicks and overweight is just gross so you sound like the one i would ask out. be patient the right man will come along and he will love you for who you are nothing else.

Anonymous · Answer

For most girls who don't get asked out (assuming they are average), the problem isn't their body fat%. They do a horrible job communicating that they are available and interested. You can do this through body language and not ever actually asking a guy out. Just make yourself appear available and a guy will make a move.

Veebee · Answer

Trust me when I say that most beautiful girls are lonely, people stay away from them. Don't get disheartened Princess, you will find your prince charming :) You don't have to lower your standards, just be yourself - don't forget to smile :) :)

Curmudgeon · Answer

I would have to see a picture to judge, really, but go for skinny.

Maverickj · Answer

Why are you waiting for guys to approach you? If you're worried that no guy is approaching you, then it's time to start approaching guys yourself.

Thonysex · Answer

U should have treated us to ur pics rather than description.. Can u do dat? Who knows..

notverycreativeguy · Answer

Only a few girls are stared at, stop living in a dream.  Nobody forbids you to approach someone, do that if nobody does approaches you.

Anonymous · Answer

"I'm too fat to be skinny and too skinny to be fat." You mean you're normal/healthy? I don't find extremes attractive.

StickStickity13 · Answer

I can't picture this, but some guy will be okay with it.

Person100 · Answer

I DON'T FUCKING KNOW BECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T POSTED A PICTURE

Guys, I'm in an awkward spot with my body. I'm too fat to be skinny and too skinny to be fat. I fear no will notice me because of this. Am I hopeles?

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