I think they are feeling uncomfortable with the change. When someone they know looks considerably different on the outside, it threatens their sense of balance. They are used to knowing you that other way and maybe they fear you somehow aren't the same person anymore. Maybe you aren't. Are you more confident? They're rejecting the unfamiliar. I'm going to surmise that they are jealous though, more than anything. Congrats for the weight loss! How did you do it?
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How much do you weigh and how tall are you? Maybe they're just jealous, women can be cruel and manipulative. Maybe you're sick thin and they're worried about you
You know, I've found out that its always the skinny ones who want to lose weight...
my theory is just that if you lost Only 40lbs in the space of a year... you either did squat.. or there wasn't much to lose. Both can explain why people are asking you to stop losing.
(either those or you are African)
I recommend a good book called "The 4 Agreements." It's helped me deal with people who like to tear down others out of jealousy and resentment. Be proud of yourself. Losing weight is a real accomplishment.
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fuck what they think. go for what you want.
Don't even listen to it, they're jealous. When it comes to your body no one should even give their input unless you ask. I don't like people who try to validate how others look or tell them how they should look. If your happy it's all that matters
They're just jealous.
Women are women's own worst enemies.They're jealous because you're much more hotter than them now.
Some people prefer us to stay sick or unhealthy. Personally, I'd consider dropping that friendship.
Sometimes people have a hard time adjusting to the new you. Or theyre simply jealous.
I had lost 25lbs and then my hubby said my legs were too skinny. My sister said it too. I think people says these things because of jealousy. I mean they always need something to complain about.
Lol most women are way too insecured so I won't be surprised bit keep killin it OP
Because maybe you do look better with an extra 40 pounds?
they probably like having you as their fat friend to make them look better an they are jealous
What size are your girlfriends?
How much do you weigh now?
Dey gettin jealous.
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