What do you think of big and tall guys?

[OpenClose]

I am 6'2" going on 6'3". I have just hit 195lb which puts my BMI right at 25. For the first time in my life, I am overweight. I miss my washboard-flat belly, though my arms, neck, and shoulders have filled out more nicely.

So I am curious what girls think of big and talk guys, because that's where I'm headed.

Love em

Kinda like them

Don't care

Kinda dislike them

Ew gross

[Octavius]

BMI is completely worthless. I'm 6'3 and I'm actually trying to work my way up to 195lb through exercise. My BMI will tell me I'm overweight once I get there but no one would ever say that just by physically looking in person. If you have a bit of a gut just start eating healthy and do cardio to burn off the fat.

[meatballs21]

I was 6'2" and 195lbs, and I was by no means a 'big guy' even though I was pretty out of shape (desk job + too much beer). A guy could be that height and weight but also very muscular, just sayin'.

[9mfeo]

If you're so unhappy, why don't you do something about it?

[OpenClose]

Ummm. Because I AM doing something about it?

[9mfeo]

Then stop complaining and get to work.

[OpenClose]

Makes me curious how you treat big girls...

"I'm trying, but the pounds aren't coming off"

"Quit whining and just work harder!"

[9mfeo]

It's all about attitude. Yours is just to whine. In the situation you have described, I could offer suggestions.

[Redstang88]

195 at 6'3 isn't really a "big guy", getting close maybe but at that height I'd say big starts at at least 250+

[93stepsawayfromhome]

I'm 6'1" and not far from your weight, and nobody thinks I look overweight. I don't think you should pay that much attention to your BMI, rather to if you look it.

[Tay_tay96]

I LOVE big tall guys.

[Anonymous]

i like tall, not big